Are You in a Relationship with a Chronic Liar?

What can you do when you are in a relationship with a chronic liar?

Michelle seeks out her brother for advice because she caught Tom, her fiancé, lying, yet again. Her brother, Andrew, affirms to her, “He would never tell the truth. You could not beat it out of him nor threaten his life, or that of a loved one.” But Michelle is in love with Tom, wants to marry him, and spend the rest of her life with him, she says, “But I believe in him.”

Michelle and Tom have been together for three years, just celebrated their first year of engagement, and she catches his lying about his whereabouts, and private communications with ex-girlfriends again.

This has happened before, and they had an important talk not long after their engagement. Michelle tried to understand that Tom might feel awkward about continuing to communicate with exes and other women, so in his mind, it was easier to lie about it than to tell the truth, even though he had nothing to hide.

They agreed that he would tell the truth because it was important for Michelle to marry a trustworthy, honest, and open man. Her brother Andrew’s advice to her was to leave him, because he is a pathological liar, and will never be truthful or honest, “Men, like that, can never change.”

To be fair, there are many types of chronic lying, and pathological liars have clear intentions to defraud, deceive, or gain in some way from their often wildly exaggerated lies. Compulsive liars, on the other hand, are motivated by fear of what other people might think. They tell fictional stories to avoid making other people feel uncomfortable or awkward or to avoid being uncomfortable or awkward themselves. Lying is one thing, intention is also important.

In the therapeutic environment, the best way to help someone is to fully understand them, to feel what they feel, share in their suffering, have an idea of their life, and how they became the person they are today. That is longtail understanding, a long-haul approach to understanding why someone might have a tendency to lie instead of feeling open and honest enough, to tell the truth consistently.

Your first reaction to being lied to is understandably rooted in anger and likely followed by a sense of betrayal. You feel like you have been victimized by a perpetrator. While this may be true if you have been lied to by a psychopath or pathological liar, this may not actually be the case, even though you feel that way, and have every right to feel as if you have been stabbed in the back.

As soon as you are starting to notice this as being a pattern of behavior, you would be well advised to start keeping notes of all the incidents of inconsistencies, times you felt your intuition telling you that something wasn’t right, or when you caught him or her in a lie. This will be helpful to keep your own sanity intact and will come in handy later if you feel as though confrontation might be necessary.

In most cases, lies are told to spare your feelings. This is an important distinction when evaluating the motivations of the liar because it makes a difference whether someone is lying because they want to exploit or harm you or they are lying because they care about you and are trying to protect you. Right?

Chronic liars may lie more often than not, they cannot help it, but they are not being malicious about it. They are commonly also diagnosed with personality disorders, such as borderline personality disorder or narcissism.

Mediation is used in the process of confrontation, though I am not convinced that intervention is not the best method due to its being shocking, assaultive, and combative, which victimizes the person who is lying. How many victims do we need, here?

If you are feeling like an intervention is your only hope for sanity or wellness, it may be healthier just to end the relationship as soon as you are able to do so with as little drama and trauma as possible. Because holding on to the hope that your liar will start telling the truth out of his or her love for you, is not the most likely outcome.

Perfect liar's response, "I'm not lying. And if I was lying, you would never be able to tell because I am the best liar in the world."
Perfect liar’s response, “I’m not lying. And if I was lying, you would never be able to tell because I am the best liar in the world.”

If you are feeling victimized by your partner’s lying, it is far more likely that your feelings will be hurt even more, and the relationship will end. Your feelings will be hurt, your heart will be broken, you will feel incredibly betrayed, angry, sad, and depressed.

It is extremely rare that a liar is willing and able to do the deep work of resolving all the life issues, drama, trauma, and learned responses that have resulted in his or her compulsion to not tell the truth, but it is possible.

If you decide to take the chance of working with your partner on their compulsion to lie, it will require a commitment to a lengthy and probably painful process for you and your partner to get to the place of your partner’s epiphany and resulting breakthrough. It will require a great deal of compassion and understanding on your part while you endure the roller coaster ride through recovery.

You must decide if you are ready for this kind of torrential commitment, and ask yourself, will your sacrifice be worth it? Whether it works or not?

If this process and the person you deeply care for is too toxic for you? You may have to let go and walk away. You have already given and endured more than would be expected from anyone.

You deserve to love and be loved, to experience reciprocal truth, openness, honesty, and happiness.

Any advice?

Lightning Reiki

So many people have been asking me about Lightning Reiki, so I thought I would just take a moment to share with you the basics of Lightning Reiki. First, Lightning Reiki is not a standalone modality, it is a Reiki plug-in for Reiki III Masters only. If you have received a Lightning Reiki treatment, it was from a Reiki Master who has received the Lightning Reiki attunement. That said, let’s take a look at what Lightning Reiki is.

What is Lightning Reiki?

Lightning Reiki is for use for clients who have severe blockages that come from traumas from the past which hide in various locations in the body.

Lightning Reiki, in a very short period of time, will seek out and destroy all the hidden festering wounds that are associated with past drama or trauma that is preventing you from being all you could be.

It would take months or years of traditional therapy, and the therapeutic environment can be extremely traumatizing.

Reiki Masters who use Lightning Reiki empower you to do deep emotional work in minutes without unearthing complicated chains of trauma buried deep within the subconscious and emotional wounds hidden at secret locations within your body.

Most people can go on through their lives and live a completely normal-looking life, but if they are harboring hidden trauma from the past. Just ignoring it and pretending like nothing ever happened is a pretty good method of getting by. No one need ever be the wiser. You are moving on, and things are looking good enough that no one would even know you had all this trauma in your past.

And the longer you ignore it, the memory of it just fades away into nothing. Sounds like a great plan, Right? Wrong.

Repressed trauma, while it can be hidden from the conscious mind, hides away in the body, where it festers and spreads deadly poisons throughout the body which cause biological deterioration, disease, and can lead to an early grave.

Unresolved traumatic wounds do not go away on their own. If the patient can survive it, years of therapy by following all the traumatic links in the chain can finally get to the root cause of the trauma where it can be dealt with, and this is not an easy process. Each successively linked incident can be painful to remember and process, which comes with its own new trauma, which can only be wiped away after the entire chain of traumatic wounds have been healed.

That’s what’s great about Lightning Reiki. Following a normal Reiki session, in one fell swoop, in a single energetic burst, Reiki energy finds and follows every link of the chain, down to the primary traumatic incident that was the first wound or link.

What to Expect from a Lightning Reiki Session

Here is how the Lightning Reiki session works. First, you will have a conversation with your Lightning Reiki Master to get a general idea about the type of emotional trauma that is expressing itself and determine how it is looking when it rears its ugly head in your life.

You may discover that you are being blocked by past trauma or adverse childhood experiences that have a cumulative effect on your life.

Following a normal Reiki session, the Lightning Reiki Master will send a burst of pure God Source Energy through your crown chakra which surges like lightning bolts throughout your entire seeking out all the stored negative energy and trauma from this chain of past life events. Then administers healing to each otherwise hidden wound, cauterizing the wound and dissolving it from your body, instantly.

There is no drama or trauma associated with the Lightning Reiki treatment, and you do not even need to acknowledge or process any of the potentially horrific details.

An entire lifetime of traumatic wounds vaporized just like that.

All you need is a great place to start. Like, if you are experiencing difficulty being successful and you are constantly having difficulties with keeping a job or getting promotions, this may be due to early trauma hidden from your everyday consciousness. This is enough information to initiate a Lightning Reiki session.

Lightning Reiki does all the heavy lifting by instantly following the chain of associated traumatic events, locating where these poisonous wounds are hiding, seeking and destroying the source of the chain, and setting you free.

This works for any chain of negative energetic wounds that can be found hiding deep within your body. It works for being disease-prone, blocked romance, stifled personal growth, limited financial resources, being your own worst enemy, abusive relationships, self-destructive behavior, depression, even suicidal ideation.

Let your Lightning Reiki Master channel god source energy to do the work.

 

December 2020 Image Directory

Wrapping up the month of December, here’s a quick screenshot review of the month’s news. Let me know which ones you like the most. Thanks for your input, -David M Masters

Indie Businesses Gone Forever or Fight to Survive Reprogram Your DNA via Meditation Reprogram Your DNA via Calorie Restriction
Reprogram Your DNA via Stress Response You Can Reprogram Your DNA Reprogram Your DNA

 

 

 

Indie Businesses Gone Forever or Fight to Survive

The COVID pandemic is widening the gap between independent businesspeople struggling to make ends meet, support their families, and communities. In America, it has been the right of individuals, just like you and me to risk it all and dare to operate a business to answer the call on our lives and to set ourselves apart from the status quo.

We do this because we love our communities and believe that we have a purpose, mission, passion, and message to deliver and that by answering the call, we can have a more fulfilling life, and make the world a little better place.

As a business consultant serving the Pacific Northwest, primarily in Washington State, I have been working non-stop in 2020 to try to help my clients survive the pandemic and the shutdown of “non-essential” business in Washington State. And we are finding ways to change the way business is approached in order to make it through the lockdown.

Not all independent or family businesses are faring as well. We were told we would be shut down for two weeks, then two months, then they let us open under modified restrictions, only to be shut down again.

Many businesses are being shut down as the result of the Governor’s mandates, and frankly, are unable to weather the storm of paying the expenses to retain their businesses while they wait for the State’s permission to resume their operations. These businesses are closing in droves, and the loss is incalculable, as they will never reopen again.

We are talking about people who have invested their life’s savings, this is their life, their calling, their purpose in this life, all gone in a heartbeat.

I am not talking about conspiracy theories, I am talking about real people, like you and me, who are doing everything they can to support their families, who support the community, and have other families who depend on them for jobs to support their families.

Some businesspeople are risking it all and making their last stand. Some businesses are opening and operating while following pandemic guidelines, like masking and social distancing in an effort to survive the Governor’s pandemic shutdown.

In doing so, they risk being fined $9,639 per day for every day they are open, violating the Governor’s mandatory shutdown of non-essential businesses in Washington State. Regardless, these people are forging forward with courage, knowing they will face exorbitant fines and potential jail time.

Several businesses, like Spiffy’s in my hometown, are making such a stand. Boldly, yet honorably and respectfully, defying the Governor’s order to shut down, which would result in their forfeiting their life’s work.

To them, this is “do or die.” If they are able to stay open enough to weather the storm, they will have something to look forward to when the pandemic restrictions are lifted.

If they are able to survive being forced not to operate, but still pay the ongoing expenses associated with retaining their right to operate a business at some point in the future, then okay. But who has the financial resources to finance such an operation? Not most small businesses, especially those who operate on small margins. They are losing their leases, tearfully saying “goodbye” to their employees who feel like family, filing bankruptcy, and they are gone forever.

If the State physically removes them from their businesses, puts them in jail, and seizes their property, they have lost it all.

So, in a way, it justifies taking the chance to defy the man and try to save your business, because you will lose your business either way, though there is a chance, that if you are respectfully defiant and you plead for forgiveness or claim your constitutional rights, the system may look the other way, and honor your right to live a life of liberty in the United States of America.

And if they seize you, your business, and your assets? Well, you still will have lost it all, knowing that you did everything you could for your family, the people who are depending on you for their livelihood, and your respect for your community.

If you end up spending a portion, or the rest, of your life in jail for fighting for your right to be true to yourself and to those who are dependent on you for their lives, you can do so with a clean conscious, even though you will shake your head, and think to yourself,

How could we let ourselves let our world turn into a place, like this?

We are doing everything we can to survive this pandemic.

God bless you for your efforts to do so as well, however you decide to approach a solution to these most unprecedented times of this generation.

Reprogram Your DNA via Meditation

Your basic DNA is naturally inherited from your parents, but you do not have to be the victim of your parent’s DNA. You can reprogram your DNA by many methods, but one of the easiest ways to reprogram your DNA is by meditating.

Reprogram Your DNA via Meditation

Meditation is known to extend life, but it also alters your DNA in a positive way for greater quality of life and longevity. It is the type of process that can affect future generations, and the most inexpensive method of reprogramming your DNA (it is free) is growing in America today.

The regular practice of meditation extends the telomeres at the end of the DNA strands which is a huge determinant of one’s lifespan.

If both of your parents were regular meditators, they have passed the health benefits and markers for living a longer life onto you by way of their DNA. Likewise, if you have meditated regularly for seven years prior to conception, you will pass these genes onto your unborn child.

Meditative practices also counteract the aging process by rejuvenating and preventing the deterioration of human cells in aging individuals. Meditating every day is like taking a dip in the fountain of youth.

There are many forms of meditation and the practice is referred to in many ways. You might call it prayer, quiet focused attention, introspection, reflection, deep thought, or no thought.

It doesn’t take long, just a few minutes a day in the beginning and the end of the day are enough to start reprogramming your DNA.

I recommend and use the Sending Love to the World guided meditation because it not only aligns me and reprograms my DNA but it also sends positive love energy to my family, friends, my community, the state where I live, the whole country, and abroad to make the world a better place.

You can find my Sending Love to the World meditation online or at sendinglovetotheworld.com

There are so many ways to enter into a meditative state. You must find the one(s) that resonate with you best.

There you go. In just a few minutes together, you have learned three secrets to reprogram your DNA (1. Stress Response, 2. Calorie Restriction, and 3. Meditation) for, well, maybe not immortality because that is a different subject and would take much longer to tackle. But these three secret techniques can increase the life you have left by 30%, just like that.

This is my basic formula for living a long life and being able to pass this work on to future generations, either informationally by spreading the word, or genetically if you are fortunate to start early enough in life.

So, here’s to you, and your new extended life. You don’t have to stop here, keep going, expand your knowledgebase, to extend your life even more.

If you are interested, you might like to enroll in the Immortality Life Extension Masterclass at St. Paul’s Free University, or any other course of study that will help you to continue this process, setting you free from the aging process that plagues your family and peers.

 

Reprogram Your DNA via Calorie Restriction

There are a great many ways you can take charge of and reprogram your DNA for longevity. Yes, you can experience life extension and live a longer, happier life by initiating a bt of calorie restriction.

If you can dial back your daily calorie intake you can enjoy a longer life. You can increase the remainder of your lifespan by 30% by eating one meal every three days. Let’s take a look at calorie restriction for life expansion.

Reprogram Your DNA via Calorie Restriction

You might be surprised to discover that calorie restriction is also a key to longevity, but it is true, and it is not that much different from the stress response. By restricting your calorie intake daily, you induce a bit of stress on your biological system and it responds by calling on the other body’s resources to survive.

Over time, as your DNA is reprogrammed to genetically respond to your calorie restriction, your body grows ever stronger… and is equipped to live even longer.

This reaction strengthens your immune system and reduces the otherwise normal deterioration of your biological system by harnessing the quantity of your diet each day.

You may have had some experience with counting calories in some fashion of diet control in the past. If you already have experience with that skillset, use it to you your advantage now.

Intermittent Fasting

I know, the idea of intermittent casting sounds counter-intuitive, especially since as far back as you remember you have been programmed to believe that three meals per day were necessary for basic survival.

This is one of those things that you will have to research for yourself and decide if you want to take action or let this opportunity for reprogramming your DNA for a longer life pass you by.

Intermittent fasting can be as simple as skipping one meal every day.

Skip 1 Meal a Day

The best results appear to come from skipping the evening meal. This places more time between dinner (supper) and breakfast in the morning, it also increases the body’s nighttime rejuvenation process by reducing the drain of digestion during sleep.

This may be the easiest way to reduce caloric intake and reprogramming your DNA by skipping a meal, and there are so many other youth-revigorating benefits from skipping the evening meal, this could be the best key to unlocking the fountain of youth.

Eat Once Every 3 Days

Many youth seekers and life extenders are raising the bar or intermittent fasting so high, so as to eat only one meal every three days. At first, this may seem like it is incredibly unsound, but if you think about it, our ancestors, when they lived to be hundreds of years old, food was not readily available throughout the year, and some sources of protein were few and far between.

So, to survive, they would only eat once every three days, and they lived incredibly long lives; hundreds of years. Doe this today and you could reprogram your DNA and increase the remainder of your life by 30% in years.

Of course, the food that we eat today is devoid of the classic vitamins, minerals, and proteins, so if you are considering any form of intermittent fasting, it is imperative that you use supplements to assure that you are getting the proper nutrients.

As in all things, managing your diet is on you. It is up to you to decide what kind of caloric restriction(s) you will impose upon yourself. For me, I am quite content by cutting what I had previously considered my normal intake of food in half.

Reprogram Your DNA via Stress Response

In my investigation about what to put in my body, I have decided to disregard what the FDA and the doctor tell me, though I do take their input under advisement, so as to not throw the baby out with the bathwater, the buck stops here. I make my own decisions about what goes into my body.

You have to decide what is right for you. God blesses you for what you do and you can tweak your process as you go along. It only gets increasingly better.

When you are exposed to any stressful situation or environment, even on a microscopic level, the body exercises its regeneration process, which empowers your physiology to grow and expand to strive to survive and thrive longer. It is as if

What doesn’t kill you makes you live longer

Secret #1 Stress Response

And you say, “Now, waitaminit Masters, you mean to tell me that I should intentionally put myself in stressful situations, to extend my life?”

As unglamorous as it sounds, this is part of the key to a longer, more meaningful, and incredibly fulfilling life. Though it is not just your exposure to potentially stressful or even life-threatening situations that increase your lifespan. No, it’s the way you respond to these challenges that unlock the vault which holds all the energy, vitality, and long life you could possibly want.

Your stress response is the part of your DNA reprogramming that is changed by the way that you live.

It is not enough just to meet your challenges head-on. If you encounter something big and it initiates your fight or flight method of self-protection, you are headed down the default path of your DNA. To change your DNA you need to change the way you respond to stressors from life circumstances, down to the smallest molecules that make up the various components of your biology.

No doubt, fight or flight will buy you another day. This translates to what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, but if you want to live longer, living out a completely different approach to any type of stress or crisis with honorable lovingkindness? This is what reprograms your DNA bit by bit.

Instead of reacting to conflict defensively, respond with love and acceptance. Find ways to see life from a greater sense of perspective. See all things as sacred and divine, even conflict, or scenarios that are undesirable.

Approaching life with a firm sense of peaceful resolve, seeing the balance of all the universe being held in perfect harmony, even in its most minute and intimate details, this not only reprograms your DNA but is the path to immortality.

Every time you practice this reverence for humanity and all life, you are reprogramming your life for longer life.

 

You Can Reprogram Your DNA

In the seven years, I was a part of the DNA project, I learned a great deal, that what we put in our bodies, and how we live, affects and changes our DNA, and we pass this onto our children.

In the meantime, we can start reprogramming our DNA for maximizing each and every day for the rest of our lives, and the possibilities for changing your DNA for increasing your longevity and vitality are vast and nearly endless.

What? Your dad died of an aneurism at age 54, and your mom died of heart failure at 72? Do you think that determines your lifespan?

Trauma and its effects on the human body can visit future generations via the DNA, so you have inherited multigenerational trauma from your biological parents, and so much more. You might have been able to blame your parents before today, but from this day forward, no more.

You can control your genetic predisposition to allergies, addictive behavior, or depression, and maladies such as obesity, diabetes, failing gut health, heart disease, Alzheimer’s disease, and cancer, just to name a few.

Prepare to let go of all that DNA and psychological programming, right now, because you are taking back your life, right down to the DNA, today, right now.

Reprogramming Your DNA

From this point forward, your life will never be the same. You could pretend that you did not have this information, but once you have had access to it, you can never make it go away. You can deny it, and pretend you never had access to it, but the future, your future, and the future of generations is now in your hands because now you know that even if you do nothing, you are programming your DNA. By default, if you do nothing to reprogram it, then the world around you will continue to do all the programming for you.

Now, you can start to initiate and run psychological and physiological routines to run in the background that will do the heavy lifting of reprogramming your DNA. Together, you and I can start reprogramming our DNA for greater health, including resistance to disease which may have plagued our parents or ancestors.

If you choose to do so, you can join me and others as self-engineering DNA re-programmers.

7 to 14-year Commitment

Reprogramming your DNA does not happen overnight. It will take 7 years to reprogram the first pass through your entire DNA. The next 7 years reinforce and solidify the changes you’ve made. So, this is a 14-year commitment to making it through this process.

I know, everyone is like, what if I miss a day?

It’s like, there you go, already setting yourself up for failure, but know that missing a day is going to have little or no effect on your DNA. Even if you completely bail out of your DNA reprogramming project, you will still enjoy the benefits of going as far as you have. Of course, the changes you have made to your DNA while engaged in the process will fade over time, as your DNA reverts to its prior state. But for more permanent results, you will need to be prepared for this 14-year span for maximum and long-standing benefits.

Vitamins, Minerals, and Proteins

It’s no secret that before you get started in the reprogramming of your DNA, that you will need the basic raw materials to do the work and be able to sustain the process over time. The minimal requirement for your body to do this work is to have all the vitamins, minerals, and proteins that your physiology needs to do this sacred work.

It’s also no secret that the food which most of us have access do not have the proper nutrients to supply our bodies with the vitamins, minerals, and proteins that we need to get the job done. So, we are going to have to find ways to supplement to help make up the difference and give us the edge that we need to start tweaking our DNA positively.

I cannot tell you what to take, or where to get it. But I know that we have resources and access to supplements in this day and age that we haven’t had access to since the days when our ancestors lived off the land, and they are much easier to get ahold of today.

It’s up to you to figure out what sources and proportions of vitamins, minerals, and proteins that your body needs. And know this: Your body and your DNA will respond as you are blessed by the energies of all that is because you are reclaiming your life in a way that is sacred and true to you.

 

Reprogram Your DNA

only one percent of your DNA is hard-coded, and you can actually change your DNA, you can, by how you live your life, and through diet and exercise. What? I can change my own DNA? Yes, you can.

This is far from the idea that we are all victims of our DNA, we are not really allowed to live an authentic life of our own because our parents cursed us with their DNA, so we are limited to the kind of life we inherited from those who gave birth to us, and little more.

Already, in 2020, and easily attributable to the COVID-19 pandemic, our DNA is changing, due to less traffic on the highways and the increase of telecommuting and working from home, it is affecting our DNA. Will it change forever, or revert to its original state as it existed prior to the coronavirus? This remains to be seen.

But you are not far from proactively changing your DNA from here on out, to live the longest life possible.

Personally increasing your life expectancy is not for everyone. Most people are just tired, and look to death as a welcomed reprieve from stress and strain that comes from daily life that can be an ongoing struggle for survival.

But for a growing segment of our population, daily life is cherished. Each and every moment is an incredible blessing, and many of us have a life calling, a passionately empowered purpose which beckons us to prolong our existence, thereby increasing our efficacy in the world. If this is you, increasing your life expectancy is an important component of achieving your highest and best.

I was part of a seven-year long experiment group in human DNA alteration project through introducing different substances into the diet of participants and charting the changes in DNA over time. We are changing our DNA all day long, and we can thank out parent for pre-determining what we will start off with in our own DNA, as well as their parents before them, and on and on, right back to our earliest origins. Every generation passes on a new set of genes to start off with.

Now I don’t have to tell you that the world we live in today, has been tweaking our DNA every day for a hundred years without our permission. Now, not only me, but many of us in the world are starting to take responsibility for our own DNA, and the crap DNA we inherited from the last four to five generations, it’s gotta go, and we’re are taking back our genome.

For most of us, we have not known about self-engineering our DNA early enough in our lives to benefit our children directly. But our children can start reprogramming their own DNA at any point in time, possibly earlier than we did, so that they can give the next generation its best start possible.

I wish I knew then, when Mary and I were bringing our children into the world what I know today, I would have liked to have taken a more proactive approach to downloading premium DNA strands made with love and the best intentions which would have been passed onto future generations, but that wasn’t anywhere on my radar back in those days.

So, Mary and I bundled up our DNA and this was our gift to our children. Knowing what I know now, we could have done better, but we didn’t have this knowledge when we were passing on our genes to our offspring. We, like the rest of us, were just doing the best we could with what we had at the time.

November 2020 Image Directory

Wrapping up the month of November, here’s a quick screenshot review of the month’s news. Let me know which ones you like the most. Thanks for your input, -David M Masters

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