Money Issues and Financial Attraction

Money happens to be one thing in our world that has who you are and what you can have in this life. If you can get a grasp of how the world really works, you could take back your financial power solving your money issues and financial attraction would be your natural state of being.

Everything is energy. Money is energy and God Source Energy is at your disposal to achieve the financial abundance which is yours. If you’ve thought of it, your heart’s desires are being attracted to you, right now. All you have to do is to do the work which removes what stands between you and what you want.

Money Can Be a Drag

It seems like everything in life is dictated by how much money (or debt) you have, or don’t have. Right? It determines where you live, who you hang out with, what you do with your spare time, how you care for those you love, and it goes on and on. The frustration that you feel about money actually keeps you anchored to where you are and what experiences you have access to in this life.

How you think and feel about money can drag you down and keep you out of the flow of abundance which is your birthright.

The first and most important step to put you on the track to financial stability and an increasingly abundant lifestyle is to make peace with your money issues, then move forward in grace.

Note that money is just an energetic toll of many, nearly unlimited, energetic possibilities to give you everything you want.

You will find that you can attract more, when you take your focus off the green monster of the dollar, until you make your peace with it and enjoy it for what it is, not what you’ve suffered through, up ‘til now.

It is All About How You Feel and Think

It is your mentality that counts. How you feel and think about the world around you determine your reality in it. Not everyone walking around on this planet operates from the same reality you do.

People with failing businesses “know” it’s hard to get to the top and people at the top “know” it’s easy for anyone to get to the top if they’re willing to work hard on the right things to get there.

Many of the obstacles holding you back were placed there by you and what you believe to be true. A lot of times, you may be the one who is creating the very “rut” you complain about being in.

You can transmute your financial dynamic and begin to master your money frequency.

Become the Master and Money Becomes Your Servant

When you change your point of view, the whole world changes. Money is neither good nor bad, it is simply an energetic entity available to serve you. You have come here endowed with everything you need to have everything that brings you a sense of joy. You are here to have fun and celebrate all this life has to offer while you are blessed to be here in your body. You should never be a slave to money, instead, you should become the master of money without fear as you learn how to use it as a tool which exists to be in service to you.

This shift in your point of view is the most powerful move you can make.

Experience is More Important Than Money

Most everyone who is trying to manifest more financial abundance is not achieving the results they want because they could be doing it better. They are focusing on the money that they don’t have. If the law of attraction works, it will bring you more of that; what you’re focusing on, the money you don’t have. It is a trap that’s been set by the powers that be. They want to keep you overwhelmed with your lack of everything, money is just one of them, which keeps you financially subdued (which makes them more money).

If you focus instead on what you want, how you want to feel about any particular thing, and the experiences you want to have, now you are avoiding the money trap and you can increase your financial attraction aptitude.

By enjoying more of the experiences, you desire to have, the higher your vibration raises. You grow and expand into this higher state of being which is a match to even more abundance, and you will see the whole world changing around you.

Higher Vibration Makes You a Powerful Financial Attractor

In this state of being, it is not about the money. Money may, or may not, necessarily be the energetic venue which brings you what you want, yet, if you are in the vibration of having what you want, it just appears. If you are open to allowing your heart’s desires to come to you in any manner possible (or even impossible). Many who have experienced this describe these events as “hard to believe” or “a miracle.”

Higher vibration means you are operating in a stream of life where you are wielding more energetic power. Changing your vibration can be a daunting task for most people. Just trying to be open to the idea of such a thing is more than the average person can fathom.

And if that’s not enough, you are bombarded by a constant barrage of negative news, bills coming in faster than you can pay them, barely getting by, being reminded of how little you have, and all the while seeing the occasional glimpse of the one-percent, those that have all the money, living lavishly, which continues to widen the gap between the haves and the lowly have-nots, who we are more closely associated with. It’s a wonder anyone can break the spell of mediocrity or slavery to the man.

Life is about balance. Doing the work includes ferreting out and removing mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual blockages which are unable to be seen by your conscious self. Just starting to be aware of their existence causes them to start bubbling up to your awareness.

Love and Money

You’re in love and you must deal with the issue of money in your relationship because as we all know, according to attorneys, money issues are the number one reason that relationships fail.

When should you talk about money in a relationship? Well, certainly not on the first date, but as soon as you are pretty sure it looks like love is in the air and you’re going to be moving into a relationship, “let’s talk about money.” The sooner, the better; within, say, the first two or three months.

If you’re already in a relationship, the time to talk about money is now.

What should you talk about?

Over the course of your life, you have developed certain beliefs and ideas about money which are deeply entrenched in you. For instance, you either believe that money I generally in short supply and there is not enough of it to go around, or that money is energy, comes quickly and easily and is in abundant supply.

Beyond those, you might ask, “What kind of money person am I?” unless you already know, and what type of money person is your partner? You needn’t be of the same money type to have a successful relationship. In fact, it is likely that you will have a higher quality long-standing love affair with someone who is unlike you in terms of their money type.

Understanding this, and being respectful of your partner’s belief systems, you are ready to go to the next level of the money talk, which means being open and honest and disclosing your financial affairs.

It’s not uncommon for one or both parties to bring some debt to the table. This should not be a surprise. Full disclosure is important, or else it will be the focal point of conflict in your relationship which could have been avoided.

The largest debt coming into a relationship which can cripple a couple’s potential is student loan debt which can be 50 to 100 thousand dollars or more and can be manageable. So, get it out on the table and discuss it. There are some creative ways to deal with student loan debt, like student loan consolidation (look around, resources are available, such as www.consolidatecollege.com).

Another debt which is usually visited upon a new relationship (or a periodic challenge in an ongoing relationship) is that of credit card debt. It’s easy, depending on your money type, to rack up a sizeable amount of credit card debt. It creeps up on you and can quickly spin out of control becoming unmanageable. Non-profit and for-fee agencies are available to assist in consolidating your credit card debt so that you can get a handle on it.

What’s my credit score?

You should know. When you’re talking about getting serious get to know your credit score, and your partner should know about his or her credit score also. Each party should be responsible for his/her own credit maintenance. You don’t want to wait until you go to buy something to find out your credit score is lacking or has been compromised; then it’s too late. Stay on top of it. There are many online resources, some are free (or say that they are free, then lure you into a subscription, so be careful), some are fee-based. Find one that is suitable for your situation.

Be Proactive

By all means, do not avoid talking about money issues. Find ways to engage talking about money issues. Make watching a regular TV show about money issues, then talk about what caught your attention. Pick a book about money issues and read through it together, talking about it chapter by chapter, honor your love and your relationship by going through this process, even if it’s uncomfortable, but do something… anything! Don’t let this issue of money be the undoing of your relationship.

See: Money Types in Love