Are you ready for a better life?
If you are ready for a living a better life, you may find yourself asking yourself questions, like these:
1. What do I want?
When you’re reviewing your life, you may discover that you’re somewhat disappointed and you may think back to a time when you knew what you wanted, but have been overcome and overburdened by life to give it much thought lately.
Still, the day comes when you look around and realize that the life you are living does not represent what you want. So, what do you do?
Recall, record and get in tune with what you want. There is still time to get what you want, if you are willing to take action to line up your desires with your reality.
2. Should I change?
Am I the person I wanted to be? At the risk of being accused of morbidity, think about what your obituary might say about the kind of person you are today. Is that how you want to be remembered?
Oftentimes we hide the real identity of who we are deep inside ourselves, not allowing others to fully see us out of fear. Fear of not being accepted or honored for who we are. Fear of abuse or rejection.
Growth necessitates change. Maybe now is the time to readjust your life, how you live your life, integrate with others and offer value to the greater community.
With a pure heart, think about practices you can add to your life, the things you can do, that will impact the way others see you.
3. What’s the hidden treasure?
With hindsight being 20/20, looking back at your life can be an amazing adventure. If you’re able to look back at life’s situations and circumstance – especially the most difficult ones – you can find the hidden treasures buried beneath the surface of any negative experience.
No difficulty in life is experienced where there is not some hidden message or learning to be gained from the experience. Though it may not seem true in the moment, from a future vantage point you may have the wherewithal to see the data clearly enough to extrapolate the precious hidden treasure.
4. Do I love what I’m doing?
Living a passionate life in congruency with doing what you love to do is where life’s greatest satisfaction is found.
If you desire to live your best life, then you need to start doing the things you love and continue to do more and more of the things you love and less and less of the things that do not bring you joy.
Find ways to increase the doing of the things that bring you the greatest amount of pleasure, and outsource the things you’d rather not be doing, exponentially increasing your quality of life.
5. Do I love my life?
If you love your life, you often find yourself in a state of happiness and joy. You find yourself optimistically waking up each day with anticipation of what each new day will bring.
The more you find the best things in life permeating each and every day, the more goodness and things to be grateful for are attracted to the various moments of each day.
You get to set the tone for the day, so start each day with a smile on your face and say out loud, “I love my life!” and make it so.
6. Am I loved?
Love covers so many aspects of your life and (whether you’re willing to admit it or not) you desire to be loved. Do you feel loved?
Do your family, friends and peers love you? What about your significant other, or your children? Do you feel as though they really love you?
If you’re single, are you attracting the love you want?
The best way to have the love you want is to love others, like you would like to be loved. It sounds risky because you may have to be vulnerable and you might get hurt (yes, you may) but it will be worth it as you begin to receive the love you bestow upon others.
7. When is it my turn?
You may have found yourself always in the service of others, willing you sacrifice your own wants, needs and desires for the greater good.
Begrudgingly making your way through life self-sacrificially, as benevolent as it may be, is not your highest and best. You know you work and attention to others has been a worthy effort. Consider you are worthy of your reward.
Ask yourself, if now is the right time to start focusing more on the things that bring you happiness?
8. Do I want more?
Invariably, we find ourselves disappointed with our station in life, regardless of whether you live modestly or extravagantly, dissatisfaction is common, leaving us wanting more.
In many cases we find ourselves feeling as though we are undeserving, or unable to afford the things we desire, but nothing is further from the truth.
You can have whatever you want. Others are doing it who have fewer resources than you at this very moment.
That doesn’t mean to be irresponsible about it, taking out a second mortgage or pawning your wedding rings. No. Instead investigate and consider using the Law of Attraction to bring the things that you desire into your life without the sociological or financial trappings of debt accumulation.
Find ways to have all that you want out of your life’s abundance.
9. What turns me on?
What are those things by which you are enthusiastically motivated?
Make more time for the things that thrill and excite you. No need to rush off and try to do everything at once, just find or make opportunities to engage in those things that light your fire of enthusiasm.
10. What is my secret desire?
If you’re like me (and the rest of us on paths to live better lives) you have a secret desire, one that has been tucked away in the deepest recesses of your heart for some time, if not for your whole life.
You may have thought it not possible, you may have felt unworthy, but if you are reading these words and have the breath of life within you, there is still time.
Your secret desire is begging you to be realized and it’s up to you to bring it to life.
You’re asking the questions
You know the answers
And let today be the first day of the best of your life