First, you’ve got to be able to agree with me, that what you’ve been doing up to now has NOT been serving your best interests, right?
7 Steps to Attract Your Soulmate
1. LOVE AND FORGIVE YOURSELF
If you’re with me and you’re feeling like you’ve totally blown to this point, I want you to put your hand over you heart and apologize to yourself, and repeat after me, and I’m gonna warn ya, you’re going to refer to yourself in this little exercise, just get over it, and take a deep breath in, hand over your heart. Exhale. We’re gonna take another breath in, this time see your breath going into the area of your heart. Hold it. Breathe out. Hand over your heart, repeat after me,
“I love you baby
And I’m sorry I let you down
From here on out,
I got ‘choo, baby.
Please forgive me
For not taking better care of you
Thank you for not bailing on me
You’re my world
I love you baby
I love you. I love you. I love you”
Understand what’s the difference between love and attraction.
“Attraction” is the default method that draws prospective lovers to you and its rooted in some really deep sh… stuff, that reaches all the way back to when you took your first breath, and maybe before. I know this might sound like BS but hang in there for a minute.
Attraction is that magnetic field which is influenced by everything that appeals to you and operates 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, while “love,” on the other hand, is something REALLY different. To complicate matters, attraction can feel like love and may have romance in the mix as well.
But love is something else, it develops over time, and is the deepening of the relationship which enables two people to have a co-creative union. Love does include attraction, but you can experience massive attraction with no love, and you already know that o’ too well. Right?
READY FOR A CHANGE?
2. BE WILLING TO CHANGE
Who needs a change in their love life? You? Who? You?
You know you can’t keep on going on like this and expect things to magically change, not gonna work. If you want to have a chance to find a healthy love partner, you gotta stop being the you that you are, right now, and start being the you that’s gonna attract that healthy lover.
You have to break the cycle. You. If you want a different love life, you gotta start being the love you want.
LOOKING FOR A SOULMATE?
Are you looking for a soulmate?
If you’re looking for a soulmate, what does that look like to you?
3. MAKE A LIST OF WHAT YOU WANT
Make a list of all the positive attributes of your soulmate, and when you start including negatively-influences, like, “I want someone who doesn’t have and affairs,” that’s negative, so flip it. Reword it positively, something like, “I want someone who is faithful to me.”
Make a list of everything, all the characteristics you want in your soulmate.
Now you’re looking for true love.
Instead of wondering, “Where can I find love,” you can attract your soulmate, that special person who is uniquely matched to you, by changing your love vibration to match that which you seek.
Any ideas where you’re going to find your true love?
You have the list which represents your one true love. Right?
LOOK IN THE MIRROR
4. BE THE LIST
Look in the mirror. There’s your one true love looking back at you.
Remember, you told yourself you’d have your back, right?
Take another look at your list of love characteristics. When this list represents every aspect of you, you will be ready to attract your soul mate like a magnet.
LOVE IS ENERGY
Love is energy, an energetic a vibrational frequency, and you attract the relationships that resonate with your current frequency. That’s the way it works every time. If you want to attract someone who’s more to your liking, then change your vibration.
5. STOP DOING WHAT DOESN’T WORK
And for God’s sake, stop doing what you’re doing now. Stop looking for love where you’ve been looking for love, because you’re not going to find love there. You already know that.
Whatever you’ve been doing, wherever you’ve been looking, bars, restaurants, grocery stores, online dating sites, if those are not working stop doing that.
Take another look at your list of love characteristics. Where is the person who is like that going to be?
6. BE WHERE YOUR TRUE LOVE IS
In brick and mortar business, the three most important things are Location, Location, Location, and in love, it’s twice as important.
Be someone who is also in those kinds of places and you will find your frequency changing to the frequency of your soulmate, and when they match?
You will look in the mirror and see your other soulmate (because you’re your first soul mate) in the mirror standing beside you.
7. RELAX AND LET IT BE
Stop exerting effort to find or create your beloved. Just relax, be open, and bathe in the vibrational frequency of your perfect mate. Be okay with who you are, raise your vibration, be what you want and your one true love will be attracted to you like a magnet.