I feel incredibly fortunate to have access to sensitive information from many people, each with unique life experiences that range from the every day to the extraordinary. This journey began many years ago when I started my work in counseling and consulting within the Christian ministry. In that role, I was bound by the privilege of penitent confidentiality, which protected those I counseled from having their shared stories exposed, even if I were asked to do so by a court.
In my younger days, I prioritized meeting people at their level without judgment, understanding that the human condition is vast and varied. Even though my memory wasn’t perfect, this didn’t affect my ability to serve. Some of the stories I heard were so unusual and intriguing that they stayed with me, even if I didn’t fully understand them at the time. These memories have remained as vivid snapshots of experiences I couldn’t yet comprehend.
When I encountered something in a story that seemed strange or unfamiliar, I didn’t let it hinder the counseling process. Instead, I stayed supportive, walking alongside the individual and accepting their experience without trying to fit it into my own framework. This approach allowed me to build trust and understanding with those I counseled, even when their perspectives differed from the norm.
As the years passed, I continued to gather stories and insights from a wide range of people. Over time, I noticed how these pieces of information started to connect, much like puzzle pieces fitting together to create a clearer picture. This growing tapestry of knowledge helped me understand things that had once seemed mysterious and out of reach.
Today, my interactions with clients with unique and sometimes unconventional experiences are more interesting than ever. With a lifetime of understanding these strange and unusual stories, I’ve moved beyond the confines of traditional religion, embracing a broader perspective of God and all of existence. This shift has made my work much more enjoyable and fulfilling.
In the past, I had to be careful not to discuss ideas or experiences that fell outside of religious beliefs. Now, I can converse openly with clients about various topics, including those some might label as “conspiracies” or “paranormal.” It’s fascinating to think that some activities and ideas within Christianity and other religions could also be considered conspiratorial or paranormal by those unfamiliar with them.
From my current perspective, I believe all things are possible, whether they are explainable or believable. My journeys into the unknown with clients are brief but illuminating. I always take care to return to my core ministerial beliefs, ensuring that my work aligns with my life’s calling and purpose.
The foundation of my ministry is the “love of Jesus.” This love means more than most Christians realize, but I love them just as they are, just like Jesus loves me just as I am, and I am forever grateful for that.
Since high school, Jesus has been my hero. Before that, my hero was Superman. I still look up to both of them because they have much in common. One is a comic book hero who helped me admire Jesus, and the other is the real hero of the New Testament.
Both heroes continue to inspire me. Through my life experiences, I’ve also stayed connected to important people in my life who have passed away. This connection is a fantastic part of my journey; many more people inspire me, some in the physical, some not so much.
Throughout my career, I’ve witnessed and experienced things firsthand that I can’t share due to confidentiality and my commitment to my personal ministry. These experiences have deepened my understanding and strengthened my resolve to help others in their unique journeys. But let me tell you this: dismissing someone because their experience differs from what you know can be a significant disservice. You might be surprised by what you discover when you listen and support someone who possesses knowledge outside your experience.
Embracing this mindset has led me on an exciting journey filled with learning, growth, and a deeper appreciation for the diversity of human experiences. Each story I hear adds another layer to my understanding of the world, reminding me there is always more to learn and explore.
