Breaking Free from Your Past to Create Your Desired Future

You might think you’re taking steps toward your desired future, but often, you’re actually recreating your unwanted past in an endless cycle. While visualization is a powerful tool for crafting your future, your brain frequently interjects past experiences, hindering your efforts. Understand how your brain works and learn how to live out of your imagination powerfully, moving forward to your abundant happiness.

The Human Tendency to Focus on the Past

Humans have a well-developed capacity to recall and reimagine the past but often struggle to vividly imagine the future. This tendency causes us to overlay past experiences onto our future visions, leading to the repetition of unwanted history. Our brains prioritize past experiences as crucial data for predicting and navigating future events, providing a sense of security and continuity. However, this focus can trap us in a cycle of reliving past experiences rather than creating new possibilities.

The Brain’s Default Mode

Research indicates that the brain’s default mode is more active in memory and self-referential processing than future-oriented thinking. This results in a preference for familiar thinking patterns and past experiences over creative and forward-thinking activities. The brain perceives future thoughts as threats due to their inherent uncertainty, triggering the reptilian brain to seek safety by reminding you of past experiences.

Struggling to Imagine the Future

When you try to visualize your desired future, your brain often replays past scenarios because they are familiar and perceived as safe. For example, suppose you want to create wealth but have experienced financial lack. In that case, you might visualize both wealth and financial failure, reflecting your brain’s preference for known discomfort over unknown possibilities.

Memory is Creative

Both your thoughts and memories are creative. If you focus on the past, you will recreate it in your present and future. Emotions tied to past memories, whether positive or negative, reinforce this cycle.

Living Out of Your Imagination

Stephen Covey’s advice, “Live out of your imagination, not your history,” highlights the importance of focusing on future possibilities. While this is challenging, the following tips can help you break free from past patterns and create your future filled with abundance and happiness:

Imagine Consciously: Stay aware during visualization to prevent your brain from reverting to past memories. Practice noticing when your thoughts shift to the past and refocus on your desired future.

Retrain Your Brain: Consistently visualize your desired future to create new neural pathways. Over time, your brain will become more comfortable with these new routes and less likely to revert to past patterns.

Keep Visualizations Short: To maintain focus, limit visualization sessions to five minutes or less. Gradually increase the duration as you become better at staying focused on the future.

Script Your Future: Write detailed descriptions of your future vision. This will help you stay conscious and prevent your brain from derailing your visualization with past memories.

Use a Vision Board: Create a visual representation of your desired future with images that reflect your goals. Regularly look at your vision board to reinforce your future vision.

By applying these strategies, you can work with your brain to choose when to reflect on the past or imagine future possibilities. This conscious choice will help you create your desired future, enabling you to visualize and see your dreams come true.

Do you find it challenging to keep your visualizations focused on the future instead of the past? Share your experiences in the comments below, and feel free to pass this post along to someone who might benefit from it.

Intuitive Intuition

Along the journey of my life and my desire to learn and grow while exercising my life’s calling of helping others achieve their highest and best I spend a lot of time introspectively examining what is inside me and ways that I can expand my skills and capabilities, not only for myself, but to maximize my offerings to others.

Early on, I recognized my lack of intuition. Having knowledge of this led me to conclude that this valuable skill was not only important but necessary. When assembling teams, I always sought someone to be a key player who was highly intuitive. Another thing that occurred to me was that either you were born to be intuitive, or not, and that it was a skill that you could acquaint yourself with. So, my personal growth regimen included education, tactics and skills related to bridging the gap between my not being born intuitive and desiring the benefits of having intuition.

My early attempts to attain a greater sense of intuition led me to advanced training in hypnosis and Neural Linguistic Programming (NLP) along with other disciplines. That was then.

It time, and with advances in scientific knowledge and technology, it became common knowledge we are all born with intuition, but in most of us, our intuitive abilities are ignored or suppressed early in life.

Now I realize my attempts to address the subject of intuitive intuition by relying on my power of mind were in vain. Certainly I learned a lot about myself and others, yet my level of intuition was not affected much with all my attempts to take a rational approach exercising mind control and brain power.

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Current scientific knowledge reveals that the seat of intuition does not reside in the brain or the mind, but in the heart. The heart has an independent mind of its own, and intuition is initiated from electrical impulses from the heart that are delivered to the brain (4 seconds later) for the mind to discern (taking an additional 3 seconds). So, it’s a one-two punch, where I had ignored the first – and most important – part of the process. (To tell the truth, to think about “thinking” with the heart sounded weak or at least ill-advised to me back in the day.)

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Do You Want Intuitive Intuition?

Finally, we have enough information to ascertain better methods of turning up the volume on our intuitive skills and abilities.

I am now in search of a more heart-centered approach to strengthen my intuitive muscle, now that I know where to focus my attention: Away from my head and toward my heart, where intuition is first alerted.

The normal process for someone who has a naturally high functioning intuition takes 7 second from the first impulse initiated by the heart to cognitive recognition. The heart knows something is going to happen, even before there is any indication that something’s amiss, it reacts a full 4 seconds prior to the brain.

You may say it’s impossible to know the future, but intuitive people know something’s going to happen before it happens more often than not. If you don’t believe me just ask someone who was born with high functioning intuition. Chances are you already know someone, if you’re not one.

So, here I go, off on another tangent in my self-improvement regimen to develop my psychic powers…