When you talk about everything in terms of energy and frequency, understand this: your actions broadcast your frequency far louder than your words ever will. If your words and your walk don’t align, the people around you will feel it, even if they can’t articulate it. And if you’re proclaiming truth, while quietly living in contradiction, it won’t stay quiet for long.
Once that inconsistency gets exposed, especially if you’ve built your reputation on your integrous ideals, you’re not just taking a credibility hit, you might be taking a fall from grace that could take years to recover from… if ever.
The Energy of Hypocrisy
How many times have we seen someone, famous or otherwise, make bold declarations about morality, love, family values, health, or spiritual enlightenment, only to be caught engaging in the very behavior they condemned?
Let’s look at some examples.
Famous Contradictions: When Words and Energy Don’t Match
| Public Persona | Proclaimed Belief or Value | Contradictory Action |
| Lance Armstrong | Advocated athletic excellence and clean sportsmanship. | Caught in one of the most elaborate doping scandals in history. |
| Jim Bakker (Televangelist) | Preached purity, faithfulness, and Christian morality. | Exposed for financial fraud and sexual misconduct. |
| Bill Clinton | Promoted women’s rights and dignity in public office. | Infamous affair with White House intern Monica Lewinsky while President. |
| Ellen DeGeneres | Built her brand on kindness and positivity. | Accusations from staff about a toxic workplace environment behind the scenes. |
| Ted Haggard (Evangelical pastor) | Spoke out aggressively against homosexuality. | Caught in a scandal involving male escorts and methamphetamine. |
| Gwyneth Paltrow | Markets extreme wellness and health purity. | Criticized for promoting pseudoscientific or unsafe products via Goop. |
| Alex Jones | Called himself a truth-teller and anti-establishment warrior. | Profited millions from fear-based marketing while misleading the public on tragedies. |
| Matt Lauer | Reported on justice and accountability in the media. | Fired after credible sexual misconduct allegations at NBC. |
| Marion Barry (Former DC Mayor) | Public servant fighting crime and addiction. | Arrested for crack cocaine use while in office. |
| Prince Andrew | Claimed moral dignity as a royal figure. | Linked to Jeffrey Epstein scandal and sexual abuse allegations. |
These public examples are not about shame, they’re lessons in energetic incongruence.
These individuals didn’t fall because they made a mistake, we all do.
They fell because their energy didn’t match their words, and the dissonance became too loud to ignore.
The Mirror of the Everyday Life
But this doesn’t just happen to the rich or famous. I see it every day in my coaching practice.
The biggest inconsistency I encounter? Unconditional love.
People say they want it. Demand it. Worship it.
But when it’s their turn to offer it? That love comes with conditions, expectations, ultimatums, and emotional punishments.
Sometimes they don’t even realize they’re doing it. It’s a pattern, programmed by upbringing, trauma, or environment. It’s not a flaw, it’s an auto-response.
And when I see it, I don’t always say something right away. I let it play out. But if they project that contradiction onto me or someone else, especially in judgment, I gently wait until the next time they contradict themselves, and I reflect it back.
They might not like it. They might resist it. But after a while, they get it. They start to see themselves.
And when that happens? That’s when real transformation begins.
Common Contradictions Among Clients
| What They Say or Demand | What They Actually Do |
| “I only want unconditional love.” | Judges and withdraws love the moment expectations aren’t met. |
| “I can’t stand liars.” | Lies to avoid conflict or embarrassment. |
| “I’m all about positivity.” | Complains and criticizes when things don’t go their way. |
| “I’m a very spiritual person.” | Shames others for not being as “enlightened.” |
| “I live in the vibration of love.” | Gossips and excludes those who disagree. |
| “I don’t tolerate drama.” | Creates tension by holding grudges and nitpicking. |
Suggestions to Break the Pattern of Contradiction
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- Catch Yourself in the Act
Make a list of what you expect from others. Then ask: “Do I offer this consistently?”
This isn’t about guilt. It’s about awareness. - Request Feedback
Ask someone close to you: “Is there anything I say I value that you don’t see me living out?”
Don’t defend. Just listen. - Daily Alignment Check
Ask yourself every night: “Did I live today in harmony with the energy I claim to be?” - Flip the Script
The next time you’re about to criticize someone, pause and say: “Where do I do this too?”
Use it as a mirror, not a weapon. - Mantra Practice
“I walk in the truth I speak. I offer what I seek. I love without condition.”
Speak it. Breathe it. Live it.
- Catch Yourself in the Act
Being out of alignment doesn’t make you a fraud, it makes you human.
What matters most is that you’re willing to recognize it, own it, and shift it.
Because when your energy matches your intention, the world changes around you. People trust you. Doors open. You become magnetic. You become free.
So be mindful of your frequency. And let your walk echo the truth you talk.
With all my love and resonance,
David M. Masters