You Innernational You Fully Empowered, Engaged and Expressed

There comes a moment in life. usually after you’ve chased enough goals, climbed enough hills, and survived enough disappointments, when something inside you quietly asks a deeper question: “Is this all there is… or is there more I’m meant to bring forward?” That question isn’t coming from the outside world. It’s not triggered by trends, metrics, or expectations. It rises from within, from a part of you that already knows the answer but is waiting for you to be brave enough to listen. This is where You Innernational begins.

You Innernational is a deliberate play on words, because what you are here to offer the world does not begin globally, it begins internally. Before anything meaningful can be shared outward, it must first be embraced inward. Your life, your story, your gifts, your scars, your curiosity, your love, none of it is random, and none of it is accidental.

When you begin to own all of it, something changes. You stop trying to become someone else. You stop editing yourself for approval. You stop waiting for the “right time.” And instead, you start showing up as who you already are, fully.

That is the turning point, the Inner before the International.

The Inner Before the International

Most people attempt to influence the world from the outside in. They try harder, push louder, hustle longer, and hope that eventually the world will validate their existence. But lasting impact doesn’t work that way.

Influence that actually matters, the kind that changes lives, opens hearts, and shifts environments, always moves from the inside out.

When your inner world is aligned, your outer expression becomes undeniable. You don’t have to convince anyone. You don’t have to perform. Your presence speaks before your words do.

You Innernational is the moment when you stop asking, “How do I fit in?” and start asking, “How do I contribute?” It’s when your life experiences stop feeling like baggage and start revealing themselves as wisdom. It’s when your struggles stop defining you and begin refining you. It’s when your purpose stops being an idea and starts becoming a lived expression.

This is not about becoming perfect. It’s about becoming integrated.

The Core of You Innernational

At the heart of You Innernational are seven inner domains. These are not boxes to check. They are living parts of you that want to be understood, engaged, and expressed.

When these areas are aligned, you don’t just live, you transmit.

    1. Your Gifts

What flows through you naturally

        • What do people consistently thank me for?
        • What do I do that feels effortless but valuable to others?
        • What lights me up when I’m doing it?

Your gifts are not loud. They are quiet, steady, and often overlooked, especially by you. They are the things you do so naturally that you assume everyone can do them. They cannot be forced, and they do not need permission. When used daily, even in small ways, gifts create momentum and meaning.

    1. Your Talents

What you’ve developed through practice

        • What skills have I built through time, repetition, or necessity?
        • What have I had to learn the hard way?
        • What could I teach someone else with confidence?

Talents are how your gifts gain structure. They are sharpened through effort and strengthened through application. When you refine your talents intentionally, you give your gifts a clear delivery system.

    1. Your Strengths and Weaknesses

Both are part of your design

        • Where do I consistently perform well?
        • Where do I struggle or need support?
        • How have my weaknesses shaped my awareness or compassion?

Your weaknesses are not proof of failure, they are proof of humanity. Many of them are simply strengths taken out of balance. Awareness here isn’t limitation; it’s leverage. When you understand yourself honestly, you become unshakeable.

    1. Your Love

The energy behind everything you do

        • What do I deeply care about?
        • What moves me emotionally or spiritually?
        • What would I stand for even if no one applauded?

Love is the fuel. Without it, everything becomes mechanical. With it, even simple actions carry weight. When love leads, fear loses its grip, and your work becomes magnetic.

    1. Your Life Purpose

Why you are here

        • What feels meaningful regardless of recognition?
        • If money were handled, how would I serve?
        • What problem do I feel drawn to help solve?

Purpose is not discovered by thinking harder, it reveals itself through movement. Action clarifies purpose. Stillness refines it. Both are necessary.

    1. Your Message

What you are meant to say

        • What truths do I keep repeating?
        • What lessons has life forced me to learn?
        • What do people need to hear that I can communicate authentically?

Your message doesn’t need polish before it needs honesty. When you speak from lived experience, people feel it. Expression strengthens clarity, not the other way around.

    1. Your Passion and Mission

How purpose moves in the world

        • What energizes me even when it’s difficult?
        • How do I want to apply my purpose practically?
        • Who am I here to serve or support?

Passion provides the fire. Mission gives it direction. Together, they turn intention into contribution.

Preparing for Innernational Delivery

Before you deliver yourself to the world Innernationally, something important must happen — integration. You don’t prepare by becoming someone new. You prepare by bringing yourself together.

You honor your story. You stop dismissing your experiences. You release the need to be flawless and choose to be real. You practice alignment in small, daily actions rather than waiting for some grand moment.

Consistency builds credibility, first with yourself.

When you live this way, influence stops being something you chase. It becomes something you carry.

Living as You Innernational

Living as You Innernational means you no longer shrink to fit environments that can’t hold you. You don’t wait for permission. You don’t perform roles that drain you. You express truth with compassion and strength.

Your life becomes a signal.

This isn’t about ego. It’s about embodiment. It’s about allowing all that you are becoming, all that you are being, and all that you are willing to share to move freely through you.

You Innernational is you, fully empowered, fully engaged, fully expressed.

And when you live this way, the world doesn’t just hear you.

It recognizes you.

 

Sharing Your Love With Others

Want to make the world a better place? Try sharing your love with others.

Whenever you share love with others, you’ll notice the peace that comes to you and to them. ~Mother Teresa

Sharing your love with others is the best way to feel love, because as love flows through you to someone else, the overflowing of your love soothes and satisfies your soul. It’s as if you have discovered the meaning of life in this benevolent act of sharing your love with others.

All of us (whether you are willing to admit it, or not) are hardwired to love and be loved. Some of us reject or deny love at all costs due to certain life experiences and/or a chemical imbalance in the brain, nonetheless you are designed and equipped to love and to share your love.

Sure, we all put on a façade to protect our vulnerable selves that reside beneath the skin, but the deeper we go inside ourselves, we find a longing for love that is often left unrealized. So, we covertly find ourselves in search of love. Occasionally, we find ways to satisfy our desire to be loved, like eating chocolate, listening to soothing music or soaking in a warm bath. Light some candles and combine all three of those for a solo experience which is better than the most common way to create the feeling of love, which is having sex (and an orgasm).

What do all these things have in common? Biologically, when you eat chocolate, listen to soothing music, relax while soaking in warm bathwater, or have an orgasm, any one of these things releases a chemical hormone called Oxytocin (also referred to as the love hormone).

When our brains release this hormone we enjoy the feeling of being loved or being in love but as the feeling fades a craving for more love develops. Sure, you could pet your cat, make a contribution to charity, or get a massage, three more ways to ramp up Oxytocin, but no matter how you try to cut it, noting satisfies more than experiencing unconditional true love that lasts a lifetime.

You might think that finding your soulmate might be the answer, “If I could just find someone to promise to love me ‘til death, then I will have the love I’ looking for.” If you’ve tried that one, how is that working out for you?

The truth of the matter is love, true love, comes from inside of you. It is the core of who you are. When you came into this world your heart was full of love, then life happened. As you grew and matured (this all starts not long after birth) you find your capacity for love decreases over time. Most of us are reluctant to love due to fear, or afraid to let someone love us for fear of losing the love we’ve shared with another.

And you couldn’t be more right because you will never find true love from another person. You, your life, your love must come from within. You must find love for yourself first, and the more love you can find and honor yourself with, the more love you will have to share with others. True love, the love that each and every one of us sincerely desires but cannot seem to find, lies hidden away inside us locked away and only you have the key to your treasure chest of love.

True love comes from within and sharing it with others allows it to flow from us to someone else and be reflected back to us creating a completed love-cycle that satisfies. While chocolate and sex satisfies briefly, sharing love from your unlimited source is more satisfying and can be savored over time without fading away, once you realize all the love you have inside of you.

Sharing your love is the most amazing way to feel your love, but for it truly to be meaningful, satisfying and long-lasting, you must have something to share. If you are giving love but don’t have much supply to share from, this can leave you feeling drained, reducing you to a caregiver, which satisfies for a while, but it is not long when your reserves of love begin to dwindle leaving you feeling used, resentful and burned out.

Alternatively, sharing your love from an unlimited supply of love from within fills you with love, peace and joy.

Fortunately, none of us are too damaged that we cannot find the love we seek within, because it’s always there, it’s always been there. You have the key, all you need is the courage to access it, and set it free. The problem is that often our individual treasure chest of love is secluded under layers of life experiences, so finding the lock may require some work.

You can do the work by reaching out and seeking ways to love yourself by taking full responsibility for your physical and spiritual needs and snuggling up with your inner treasure chest of love by any method that you can. I might suggest the book, The Mastery of Love by don Miguel Ruiz, or any of a hundred other books on finding big love deep within, or you could attend an Awakening to True Love Workshop, or similar seminar or retreat.

With your increased ability to love yourself and others, you can attract and achieve all the things in life that you’ve longed for while enjoying greater peace and happiness as your love overflows.

True love, the unconditional love that never ends imbues you with the ability to be bulletproof as you make your way through this life. You will find things that used to get to you, no longer have power over you because you are empowered with an unlimited supply of invincible unconditional love that loves no matter what.

Your love is not limited by time and space; you can share your love anytime, anywhere, in person, over the phone, via email or even from a private, meditative state. Your love is an energetic force that emanates within and can be transferred to others.

You will find yourself not only loving yourself, your family, your friends and your mate but you will also find the ability to share your love with complete strangers as well as your enemies.