Believing is Seeing

Wayne Dyer said, “You’ll see it when you believe it,” and he couldn’t have been more right. This is a cautionary concept that if you get the grasp of it, can set you free from the chains of belief which bind you.

Exercise caution in your beliefs because what you believe will present itself to you more and more. Your beliefs are unique only to you. Sure, people can try to stuff their beliefs into you, but only you control what you believe to be true.

Your beliefs are the most powerful structure in your life which determines just how happy, healthy, successful, and fulfilled you will be.

So, what do you want?

I’m still surprised when I ask someone what they want, and they just look back with that deer in the headlights stare, like, “What?” It’s as if they’ve never allowed themselves the luxury of even considering what might be their heart’s desire because it’s just too inconceivable that any good could be out there waiting for them.

Don’t let this be you.

Of this you can be sure: You can’t get from where you are to where you want to be if you have no idea where you want to go. Oh, sure, you can run off and end up somewhere, but you might be surprised at how familiar the new location is to your previous location.

Why? Because your beliefs are still the same, and this will determine your experiences.

Make a list of what you might like to see in your life, in your wildest dreams, and look at it every day.

Add some enthusiasm to support what you want to see in your life. Read books about what you want. Sing songs about your heart’s desires. Conduct Google searches about the life you’d like to live. Take courses and align yourself with others who have similar desires.

The more you can submerge yourself in the vibration of what you want and allow yourself to believe it is yours for the asking (and it is) the closer it comes to you.

When you see people having what it is that you want, reach out to them. Ask them, “How’d you do that?” Let them know that you love the idea that they have it, and you’d like to do it, too. They may just smile and walk away, or they might give you invaluable tips that might help you achieve the same.

You might be surprised at how well this works on social media, like Facebook. No need to be afraid. The worst that could happen is that they ignore your message. The best? If not purely an inspiration, they could become your mentor.

When you learn of ways that others have achieved those things in life which seem to elude you, keep in mind that whatever process worked for someone else may not work for you. While the information is invaluable, keep in mind that your journey to what you want will be unique in many ways, so find ways to reduce the gap between where you are and where you want to be which resonate with you, and you’ll find yourself going farther faster.

Keep focused on your heart’s desire, even if it appears to be so far off that you might think it might never come. Whatever you do, don’t give up on your dream, because if you do, you will definitely see what you believe. Don’t stop believing.

Stay steadfast in maintaining your positive vibration, finding the things in your life which bring you joy, and do more of those things, because the better you feel more often, the gap closes even more.

Believe in you, in what you want, and that you can have it, and it will come to you.

When you find yourself enjoying the anticipation of having whatever it is that you want more than the disappointment of not having it, there you will be in the midst of it all, and even more.

Believe in Yourself

Certainly, when you’re feeling like the world has turned it’s back on you, I still believe in you and there are others who also believe in you, but more importantly, you must believe in yourself. When you get down and lonely, and you feel like no one’s there, find some quiet time and turn your attention within.

When things don’t turn out as you planned, its easy to sit back and let your emotional frequency fall. You may start to question yourself, becoming more critical of yourself, may berate yourself, or even fall into a depressive state. Not good and not worthy of you, who you’ve become, and who you are evolving into.

If you start feeling down, remember who you are. Remember that you are more than what you do or a result of your decision-making skills or actions. Your sense of worthiness could come into question. You are as worthy of experiencing a wildly successful and incredible life, as much so as on the day you were born, even more so.

Some people look to others to perceive their sense of value. More importantly, you must be able to ascertain and feel your value and worthiness from within. This sentient valuation of yourself will help you believe in yourself and get from where you are now to where your intention is leading you.

Remind yourself who you are, what makes you, “you.” Not the who you present to your peers or others in general, not your publicity campaigns or how you present yourself via social media, but who you really are.

When you reflect upon your unique abilities, special gifts, talents, your mission, message, all the things that make you special and what you have that can positively affect the world around you, this reminds you of who you really are. You are so much more than just animated matter, you are a spiritual being on a human journey of increasing awareness, making an important contribution to your community and the world at large.

Believe in yourself. This world needs you. Even when you’re feeling like you’re not good enough, you recognize your significance and worthiness from within yourself. Of course, if you have relationships with people who can mirror these ideas back to you, all the better, but it is not necessary.

It is highly beneficial to find like-minded people who you support, respect and care for, especially if reciprocal. They can help support and increase your sense of self-value just by being in their presence.

The key is to be able to get a positive idea about you and believe in yourself as soon as you start to feel your vibrational frequency begin to falter.

Throughout your life, there will be many scenarios, circumstances, and situations which may require you to purposefully embrace lower frequencies to accomplish what is necessary to get you through a crisis or to help others who may not have the ability to fend for themselves.

You have the ability to traverse all the frequencies but believing in yourself can help you to return to your higher base frequency as soon as possible.