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Cutting Cords for Freedom and Peace

Throughout your life’s journey, you have relationships with other people who connect to you. You can feel it, as if you were connected by an energetic tether, and you are. It’s time to start cutting cords for freedom and peace for both of you.

An etheric cord between two individuals is like a tube where energy flows back and forth between two souls. You can feel it, like an emotional connection, which tugs at your heart and drains your love energy.

When you love someone, you become connected by an energetic cord.

In the beginning of the relationship your cord is connected, and this helps to solidify the relationship as you share this deep sense of connection, which in a perfect world, if all people were honest, open, loving, and caring as you could believe they might be, would be a good thing. But, for the most part, people are far more selfish than we might like to admit.

The relationship runs its course and you each go your separate ways, but this energetic cord remains.

This is why, when you’ve had a love relationship with someone, you feel deep emotional connection and/or negative impact, from fond memories to tragic broken-heartedness, or just being sidetracked by daydreaming or wondering where he or she is now.

When someone causes trauma in your life, you are also connected or “corded.”

If the person you are corded to lives in a highly negative emotional state, he or she may be getting the positive life force energy they need to survive from you, because you are still connected.

There are others who are virtual highly negative black holes that literally feed off the energy of others via these etheric cords. Even though they may not be currently active in your life now they continue to drain your life force energy, like energy vampires.

In descending order, you are joined by powerfully connected cords to sexual abusers, any sexual partners, lovers, children, spouses, siblings, parents, and close friends. You will also develop these connections among your mentors, clients, employers, teachers, casual friends, co-workers, and acquaintances.

Therefore, the need for cutting cords for freedom and peace.

Cord-cutting is a therapeutic technique utilized by spiritual healers and energy workers which sets both parties of the cord free from the life-draining connection. Proper cutting of the cords also includes the open end of the cords be connected to source energy so that no one suffers from the process and the energy of pure love is provided to both you and the person you were connected to prior to the cutting of the cord.

Your mind, which may have developed an addiction to the connection, may recoil at the idea of separating the cord, especially if the cord exists between you and someone you want to keep in your life. Fear not. The person can be a fully engaged part of your life, only prevented from draining your energetic flow.

But if it’s someone you want to leave your circle of influence, they will more easily fade away from your presence if they are no longer connected by this cord.

There are many techniques used for cutting cords for freedom and peace and you may elect to cut specific cords or many cords.

I have witnessed and participated in the wholesale cutting of all cords in one immense ceremony, but I think this is less commonplace.

Personally, I started with the most negatively impacted cords, then progressed to more, even disconnecting all of them, then reconnecting the ones I wanted to if I wanted to keep them connected.

Disconnecting yourself from being emotionally and energetically drained by others and cutting cords for freedom and peace can be a powerful step forward enabling you to manage your own sacred space as you journey forward into your own spiritual growth, expansion, and evolution.

Invisible Ties that Bind

The invisible ties that bind us together are unseen shackles which keep us tethered together. These energetic cords are like umbilical cords through which the person or people that to whom we are connected draws energy, our very life force, from us.

You become connected to so many people throughout your course of life, and if you continue through life without doing a bit of spiritual and emotional cord-cutting, you remain deeply connected to the people whom you’d be better off freeing yourself from.

The first cords you establish are those that connect you to your parents, good or bad, loving or hateful, these cords connect you to your parents for life, unless you can go through the process of freeing yourself from their energy drain.

You are also energetically corded to people you admired, loved, cared for, people who have befriended you, done a favor for you, have had sex with you, or abused you. You can feel the connection when you think about any of these people. That energetic charge is very active because you are still connected to these people, and they are draining your energy, not unlike energy vampires, even though they may not be currently actively participating in your life today.

Whenever you make a promise, vow, or are indebted to someone, an energetic cord is connected. The connection remains, even long after the situation is rectified, expired, or the debt has been paid, unless you go about the work of disconnecting this invisible energetic connection.

You may have gone about the work of severing your relationship with a person from your past, yet, the invisible ties that bind remain keeping you connected to a person whose energy you would be better off without. As long as you are still connected to this person (these people) you will be unable to focus your energies and abilities to achieve your highest and best.

You will still be able to maintain a better life, but while these cords remain and persist in draining your precious energy, you may be prevented from realizing your best life.

Especially in past relationships, when you have pledged your love to someone, even long after that relationship has run its course, the connection and the energy drain persists as you continue to be haunted by the person you promised to love.

Traumatic energy connections also keep you connected to individuals and incidents which you would much rather be free from, holding you back and restraining your full potential in the present moment. These negative energetic cords are a leading contributor to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

While you remain connected, you will continue to attract these people to whom you are connected or other people who share a similar vibration, life, lifestyle, negative energy, or psychological profile.

When this energy remains connected to you, it clouds your vision and will project itself onto those new people, relationships, situations, and circumstances, triggering false cues or suspicions as the energy of the connection is projected onto your viewscreen of the present.

As unfair as it might seem, it remains a matter of fact, that unless these cords are cut, and you are free from these energetic drains from the past, it will hinder your potential to live your best life, free from these shadows and connections, and it may lead to physiological decline in health, wellness, and may promote a sensitivity to disease.

Psychotherapy might suggest a violent attempt to dig down into the recesses of your mind, having to drag you through each detail of the past, which is a traumatic process in itself, and though it may be effective, can take months or years of therapy (which works incredibly well for the therapists bottom-line).

For this reason, I prefer more modern (or ancient) methods of cutting cords from the past which are far less invasive, instantaneous, and have lasting results.

Think about how you know this to be true and ask yourself if you think now is a good time to sever the invisible ties that bind you to the past, so you can live a better life, your best life, and make the world a better place.

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