Religious Recovery

You’ve suffered at the hands of clergy who you’ve entrusted with the keeping of your very soul. You’ve pledged your allegiance to a religious order, given of yourself in service, sacrificed for the benefit of the organization, then found out it was not what you thought it was. Now, you’re in religious recovery.

Religious recovery is not to be confused with AA, which assumes that you’ve failed if you ever take a snort of alcohol again. No need to throw out the baby with the bathwater.

There is hope for you.

You have had a relationship with God, and you can keep your relationship with your higher power without having to submit to your previous religion. God is not the God of any particular religious organization. Individual religious organizations are stepping stones to a greater relationship with the source of all life.

Had you not had this experience, you might not have been aware of the existence of a higher power. Now that you have been introduced to God and started to develop a relationship, you can keep growing and expanding as you keep pursuing a greater relationship with the creator of all life on your own.

You’ve taken the first step. You’ve exited the influence of an organization whose intent it was to control you, which has held you back from moving forward and beyond the capabilities of the faction you had associated with in the past.

The will attempt to deploy all the fear-based intimidations they can to make you feel like you are unworthy, unwanted, and may even threaten your survivability, tell you you’re going to hell, or decrease your own will to live, and you may occasionally feel like you can’t go on another day.

Your initial reaction might be to rebel, and judge the organization for treating you badly, deciding,

If that’s the way God is, I want nothing to do with it.

But remember, your problem is not with God. It is with the organization run by the people who are doing the best they can to serve God in the only way they know how. They have been programmed by the generations that went before and they live within the confines of a religion based on fear. Fear of doing it wrong, fear of punishment, fear of eternal damnation.

God is not a God of fear. God is a God of love. And you know it.
Now that you’ve taken a step toward your own religious recovery, you have the wherewithal to start your own relationship with your higher power without having to succumb to the heavy-handed mechanisms of religion.

You are empowered to follow your own path to enlightenment in any way that you see fit, sort of like a modern-day shaman. The traditional path of a shaman is more structured, not unlike an organized religion, but the modern-day shaman is widely expanding and evolving along with the rest of the human race.

The times are changing, and the whole planet is evolving from a fear-based system (which is not sustainable) to a love-based system which is heart-centered and seeks peace and harmony for all.

God is loving you, so excited about your finding your own way, and waiting for your awakening.

See you at the Recovery from Religious Trauma Event in Olympia, September 21st

Spirituality and Churches

As the government continues to grow in strength and power, expanding ever further, it creates new ways to control the masses by brute force, enacting new laws, and monitoring and tracking our every move to ensure compliance or instill fear of punishment. Meanwhile, those who are spiritually inclined are also expanding.

Freedom of religion in the United States has afforded us the opportunity to play a particularly influential role in creating a better world for those of us who believe in a brighter future for our children, their children, and future generations.

We pray for a better life and a better world. People in the United States pray more than in any other nation, and even those who profess that there is no God, even 20 percent of those who profess no belief in God, can be found practicing prayer.

Within the medical community, the effect of prayer on healing and recovery is unrefuted; although it may be dismissed as a “placebo effect” in study after study, including double-blind studies, the results are consistently positive.

Churches have the most powerful impetus for change in the human condition. Every day, the less-than-desirables in the United States, the criminals, those who helplessly succumb to addictions, abusers (both legal and illegal), and other problematic members of society incredibly change their lives with the least amount of recidivism thanks to American churches.

Churches make the world a better place by reaching out to the disadvantaged, giving them a reason to live, and encouraging even the least of us to reach out and help to make the world a better place.

Thanks to churches, we see a reduction in crime, divorce rates, poverty, homelessness, drug and other addictions, depression, and other mental health issues.

Churchgoers tend to have a higher sense of obligation to do what is right, higher self-esteem, greater achievement among family members, and a more significant contribution to the community at large. They are more proactive and have happier, healthier families, increased immune systems, and greater life expectancy.

Spiritually minded individuals who profess a sincere connection to a higher power and regularly attend church, where they gather with like-minded people, live happier, more productive, law-abiding lives. They are more understanding, compassionate, and loving towards themselves and others.

The statistics reveal markedly and exponentially higher degrees of success and satisfaction in all areas of life among those who attend or gather together three times a month compared to those who gather once a month or less.

Many spiritually minded Americans who are ever-evolving into higher versions of themselves may have negative associations connected to the idea of church or a recognized religious gathering. The time has come for us to embrace the concept of religious freedom as part of our expanding consciousness.

Spiritual growth need not be a solitary journey. As we know, there is greater significance and more power for a better world when we combine our abilities with those of other like-minded individuals on a similar path.

We must ever be cognoscente about proceeding with such an idea in caution to prevent the interruption of our efforts by an oppressive ruling government.

Even though the founders of our country protected freedom of religion by declaring, “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof…” in the First Amendment to the Constitution, effectively establishing a separation between church and State, since then, there have been attempts to integrate the church and state, giving government the final say in specific affairs of the church.

The primary method for controlling the church was for the United States to offer a deduction for financial contributions, exempting the church from tax debt owed to the IRS through registration and filing for 501(c)(3) non-profit status. Churches volunteer to do so to increase the financial support of their members but also become a corporation in the United States, clearly aborting the separation of their church from the state.

A church, as a non-profit organization of the United States of America, achieves the status of a state-recognized licensed church. Doing so may waive its freedom of religion and its ability to remain separate from the state, allowing for government intrusion.

You can see it in action: churches being violated, shut down, priests, pastors, preachers, and teachers being forced to testify in court, violating the penitent privilege. Churches, which may have otherwise been considered sanctuaries, are now subject to having their perimeters breached in the name of the state, and many compromises are made by voluntarily striking a deal with the state.

Is there a better way?

If you can’t find a church in your community that would welcome an expansion explorer like yourself, perhaps it’s time to create such a venue.

Could you be a part of this spiritual awakening and expansion?

Let your church be the antithesis of all those other churches.

It is your privilege, and your responsibility, after a time of healing, if you are so-called. You might be the key to providing a safe environment for others to discover themselves, engage in their own deep inner work, and do so in any way they see fit while being loved and supported by others who are doing similarly individual work.

My wish for you, for all of us, is that there is a church where any one of us would feel welcomed and supported without fear of not being accepted or threatened nearby.

This is the next step.