Don’t Bury Your Symphony: Give Your Old Creative Work New Life

For years, I’ve told people some version of: Don’t bury your symphony in the graveyard. You’ve probably heard the sentiment before. The graveyard is filled with unwritten books, unsung songs, unbuilt businesses, unspoken words, and magnificent ideas that never made it out of someone’s head.

As a coach, I’ve spent a good portion of my life trying to prevent that. Write the book. Create the course. Record the message. Build the thing. Get as much of what is inside you outside of you while you’re still on the right side of the grass.

Good advice.

Then there’s me. LOL.

I Thought I’d Done a Pretty Good Job

For the most part, I have. I’ve built businesses, launched ministries, written books, created courses, recorded ideas, developed programs, etc. And I’ve learned to recognize which creations have sustainability.

Some things are created for a moment. They do their job and disappear.

Others have what I call evergreen potential. They’re almost like little money-market bonds of creativity. You invest in them, preserve them, occasionally dust them off, update them, and bring them back into circulation. They continue accruing value.

I’ve become pretty good at recognizing those.

Good job, David.

Except… there was this one rather large part of my life that I let disappear almost completely.

My Awkward Career as a Singer/Songwriter

Once upon a time, I wrote songs. Lots of them. I performed them. Recorded them. Produced them. And I did it under the name Dave-Michael Valentine.

I was never particularly confident about my career as a singer/songwriter. It served its purpose at the time, and eventually it stopped being financially practical. So I let it go. Completely.

I had done the same thing with other businesses. Video stores disappeared. Photo labs disappeared. Industries change. Technology changes. Markets change. You move on.

That’s life.

So I moved on from the music too. I didn’t preserve it particularly well. I didn’t maintain the catalog. I didn’t periodically pull out the old recordings and reminisce. I simply went forward.

And for decades, that was fine.

Then Some People Came Looking for the Music

Recently, a few people who remembered and supported that old music started asking about bringing it back. My first reaction was something like: Really? Why?

I’m no stranger to music production. Mary and I had a recording studio. My best friend, bandmate, and supporter Norman joined us at Eternalight Studios in Centralia.

I know what went into producing music. It was expensive. It was labor-intensive.

And, frankly, many of those old recordings were never pushed all the way to the level of commercial production I would have wanted.

So what would be the point of resurrecting them now?

Then these guys showed me something. Technology had changed. Dramatically.

They had access to contemporary production tools, including AI-assisted tools, that could do things we couldn’t have dreamed of doing economically when those recordings were made.

I was skeptical.

Then I listened to some of the work they had restored and recreated.

Okay. You have my attention.

Unprofitable Is Not the Same as Worthless

That may be the larger lesson I’ve stumbled into.

When something stops generating money, we have a tendency to measure its remaining value by its commercial viability. Sometimes that’s appropriate.

A business has to make economic sense. But commercial value and human value are not the same measurement.

    • An old photograph may be commercially worthless and priceless to your granddaughter.
    • A letter may have no market value whatsoever and become one of the most treasured possessions in a family.
    • A book that sold poorly may contain one idea that changes someone’s life twenty years later.

And apparently… an old song that never became a hit can still matter to somebody.

I hadn’t really thought about that.

My Life Used to Have a Soundtrack

There’s another part of this resurrection that caught me by surprise. I realized what I actually missed. It wasn’t performing. It wasn’t trying to become famous. It wasn’t chasing record sales.

I miss writing songs.

For many years, my life had a soundtrack. Something would happen… and eventually there would be a song.

    • A relationship.
    • A heartbreak.
    • A spiritual experience.
    • Something ridiculous.
    • Something beautiful.
    • Something I couldn’t quite explain in ordinary conversation.

It could become music.

Looking back, it’s almost as though I lived inside one enormous music video. There was always another lyric wandering around somewhere. Another melody. Another story looking for three minutes and forty seconds in which to become something else.

I miss that. I hadn’t realized how much.

Maybe Nothing Creative Is Ever Completely Wasted

This has made me wonder about the things we leave behind. Not everything needs to be resurrected. Good heavens.

Some things served their purpose and deserve a peaceful retirement.

Please don’t interpret this as instructions to retrieve everything you’ve ever created from the attic. LOL.

But perhaps occasionally it’s worth looking back and asking:

Did I abandon this because it had no value… or because its season appeared to be over?

Those are not necessarily the same thing. Technology changes. You change. The world changes.

Something that was impossible twenty years ago may be ridiculously easy today. Something that couldn’t find an audience then may find one now. And something that will never earn a nickel might still deserve to exist.

Get It Out of You

That’s where this circles back to the advice I’ve given other people for years.

Don’t bury your symphony. Maybe yours isn’t music.

Maybe it’s

    • The book you’ve been talking about writing.
    • The photographs nobody has organized.
    • The family stories only you know.
    • The invention scribbled on paper in your desk.
    • The course you’ve never finished.
    • The paintings stacked against the garage wall.
    • The business idea.
    • The research.
    • The poems.
    • The recipes.
    • The ridiculous little project nobody else understands.

I’m not saying everything inside you needs an audience. I’m saying give the things that matter a chance to exist outside of you.

    • Preserve them.
    • Finish some of them.
    • Share some.
    • Leave others for the people who will eventually discover them.

Before Somebody Shovels Dirt on It

Maybe that’s the invitation hiding inside all of this. Take another look. Not only at your music. Look at whatever you created during another season of your life and eventually left behind.

Maybe you’re one of my old musician cronies with boxes of tapes somewhere. Maybe there are songs you haven’t heard in forty years.

Maybe you have photographs, manuscripts, poems, sermons, recordings, inventions, research, artwork, family histories, or ideas created with technologies that became obsolete before the work itself did.

Pull something out. Look at it again. Not nostalgically, necessarily. Curiously.

Ask: What could I do with this today that I couldn’t do then?

That’s an entirely different question than asking whether something from your past is still commercially viable.

    • Technology has changed.
    • Distribution has changed.
    • Production has changed.
    • The cost of doing things has changed.
    • And now AI is changing the equation again.

Things that once required a recording studio, production crew, publishing company, substantial financing, or access to specialized equipment may suddenly have possibilities that simply didn’t exist when we packed them away.

That doesn’t mean everything needs resurrecting. Some things really are finished. God bless them. LOL.

But maybe some aren’t.

    • Maybe there is something sitting in your garage right now that deserves another afternoon of your attention.
    • Maybe your children have never heard the songs you wrote.
    • Maybe your grandchildren don’t even know you wrote songs.
    • Maybe somebody who loved your work thirty or forty years ago would smile enormously just hearing it again.
    • And maybe—just maybe—the person who needs to hear it hasn’t even been born yet.

That’s worth thinking about.

So, to all my fellow old fogies, musicians, writers, artists, dreamers, garage-band survivors, four-track veterans, cassette collectors, reel-to-reel warriors, and people who once made something that mattered to them: Go look.

See what’s still there. See what’s salvageable. See what today’s tools can do with yesterday’s creativity.

I’m hoping I’m not the only one doing this.

In fact, I’d love to see a small army of my old cronies digging through closets, garages, storage units, and forgotten boxes, finding those old recordings and saying, “Well, lookie there…”

    • Maybe that song isn’t dead after all.
    • Maybe the old soundtrack still has a little life in it.
    • And maybe bringing the old songs back reminds some of us that we’re not quite finished making new ones.

As for the Dave-Michael Valentine catalog, we’re going to see where this goes.

Maybe something happens. Maybe nothing happens. I’m becoming less concerned about that. The songs will exist. Someone will be able to hear them.

And someday, when somebody finally does shovel dirt onto me… at least they won’t be shoveling it onto the songs.

 

What Actually Becomes Your Legacy, (If It’s Not Your Stuff)?

After you come to terms with the idea that your belongings eventually become cash or trash, something deeper begins to surface. A more important question surfaces. If it’s not your stuff… then what actually remains? Because something does. It has to. Otherwise, what are we doing here?

Most people spend their lives building a collection. Fewer people spend their lives building a legacy. And at first, those two things can feel like the same thing. You work hard. You acquire things. You create a life that looks meaningful from the outside. But when you strip away the objects… when you remove the physical layer… you begin to see what was actually being built underneath it all. Or in some cases… what wasn’t.

Your legacy is not something that sits on a shelf. It doesn’t gather dust. It doesn’t need to be sorted, sold, or thrown away.

Your legacy lives in places that don’t require storage:

    • In the way someone hears your voice in their mind when making a hard decision
    • In the confidence you helped someone discover in themselves
    • In the moment someone chose differently because of something you once said
    • In the feeling people carry when they think of you

That’s where it lives. And unlike your stuff… it doesn’t depreciate.

If you look closely, you’ll start to recognize the real assets you’ve been building all along. Not the ones in your house… The ones in people.

Things like:

    1. Emotional Imprints

How did people feel around you?

        • Safe?
        • Judged?
        • Seen?
        • Dismissed?

Those impressions don’t get packed into boxes. They stay.

    1. Perspective Shifts

Did you help people see life differently?

Sometimes a single conversation becomes a turning point in someone’s life.

You may not even remember it. They will.

    1. Encouragement Given at the Right Time

Most people can point to one moment… When someone believed in them before they believed in themselves.

If you’ve ever been that person for someone else… that’s part of your legacy.

    1. Standards You Lived By

Not what you said. What you consistently demonstrated.

Integrity, kindness, discipline, presence…

People remember patterns more than moments.

    1. The Way You Handled Difficulty

Your response to challenge becomes a reference point for others. Whether you intended it or not.

Why Is It Time to Consider Your Legacy?

Because legacy is not something you leave behind. It’s something you are building… in real time. Every interaction. Every response. Every decision. You are either reinforcing something… or weakening it. And most people don’t realize this until much later, if ever.

Once you see this clearly, something begins to change. You don’t have to give up your stuff. You don’t have to become extreme or detached.

But you start to ask different questions:

    • “What will this moment mean later?”
    • “What am I leaving with this interaction?”
    • “Is this building something that continues… or something that ends with me?”

That shift alone begins to recalibrate everything.

What’s the Deal?

At the end of it all… People don’t gather to talk about what you owned.

They gather to talk about:

      • Who you were
      • How you showed up
      • What you stood for
      • What it felt like to be around you

That’s the conversation. That’s the continuation.

If your stuff doesn’t define your legacy… then your legacy becomes something far more powerful.

Something that

      • doesn’t rely on preservation.
      • doesn’t need protection.
      • can’t be taken, sold, or discarded.

It becomes…

the part of you that continues in others.

And the moment you recognize that… You stop trying to hold onto everything. And you start becoming someone worth remembering.

 

 

Cash or Trash: What Happens to Your Belongings After You Die

Everybody’s heard the phrase, “You can’t take it with you.” Most people nod their heads, agree with it… and then go right back to accumulating, protecting, organizing, insuring, and worrying about their stuff. Because while we say we understand it… we don’t actually live like we understand it. But every now and then, life brings you close enough to the truth that you can’t ignore it anymore.

For me, it started with my dad’s things. Then it continued with friends who passed. And what I began to notice, a subtle hint at first, then increasingly troubling, was this: No one cares about your stuff like you do. Not even close.

 

When someone is gone, their belongings go through a predictable process. Not emotionally… but practically.

Their “treasures” become:

    • Consolidated
    • Sorted
    • Sold
    • Donated
    • Taken
    • Or thrown away

Sometimes respectfully. Sometimes carelessly. Sometimes opportunistically or even nefariously. And in the end, almost everything falls into one of two categories:

Cash… or trash.

That’s not cynical. That’s observable reality. The object that meant something to you… is just an object to someone else.

Why Does This Feel So Unsettling?

Because deep down, we don’t just collect things. We attach meaning to them. That chair isn’t just a chair. That tool isn’t just a tool. That collection isn’t just a collection.

It represents:

    • Time invested
    • Experiences lived
    • Identity expressed
    • Moments remembered

So when we realize that meaning doesn’t transfer automatically… it shakes something loose inside of us. Because it forces a deeper question: If the meaning doesn’t survive… what actually does?

Why, You Ask?

Because nothing has inherent value. Value is assigned, and more importantly… value is temporary unless it is transferred.

If you don’t actively pass along the meaning of something, it defaults back to neutral, and neutral things get processed. Quickly.

So What’s a Better Way?

This isn’t about becoming detached or minimalist overnight. It’s about becoming intentional.

Here are a few grounded ways to approach your “stuff” differently, while you’re still here to do something about it:

    1. Curate, Don’t Accumulate

Instead of asking, “Do I want this?”
ask:

“Is this worthy of being part of my life story?”

Because if it’s not meaningful now, it won’t magically become meaningful later.

    1. Transfer Meaning While You’re Alive

If something matters to you…

Don’t wait.

        • Give it to someone now
        • Tell them why it matters
        • Share the story behind it

Because without the story, the item loses most of its value. With the story, even something small can become priceless.

    1. Convert Possessions Into Experiences

Objects sit. Experiences live on, in you, and in others.

Instead of protecting your stuff… Ask:

“How can this serve a memory, a connection, or a moment?”

That’s where lasting value is created.

    1. Document What Matters

If you have items you truly care about:

        • Write about them
        • Record their significance
        • Attach meaning in a way that survives you

Because memory fades, but documented meaning can be carried forward.

    1. Simplify the Burden You Leave Behind

Most people don’t think about this… but when you’re gone, someone has to deal with everything you leave.

You can either leave:

        • A logistical burden
        • Or a thoughtful legacy

One is overwhelming. The other is a gift.

What Endures

It’s not your stuff. It never was.

What lasts is:

      • The way you made people feel
      • The impact you had
      • The experiences you created
      • The meaning you shared

That’s the part that doesn’t get sold off or thrown away. That’s the part that endures.

Is It Time for a Reframe?

This realization feels unsettling at first, even a little frightening, because it forces you to look at everything you’ve built, collected, and protected… and ask what really remains.

But there’s another way to see it. Not as loss… But as freedom.

If your stuff doesn’t define your value… Then you’re free to define it yourself. Right now. While it still matters.

Think About It

At some point, whether expected or not, you become unable to protect, organize, or assign meaning to your things. And when that moment comes your stuff will be handled by someone else, in a way that makes sense to them.

So the real question isn’t, “What will happen to my stuff?”

The real question is:

“What do I want my life to stand for, beyond my stuff?”

Because that’s the only part no one can throw away.