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How to Build a Meaningful Legacy… And You Can Start Today.

Once you realize your stuff doesn’t become your legacy… and once you begin to understand that your legacy lives in people… there’s a natural next question: “Okay… but what do I actually do with that?”

Because most people hear the idea of “building a legacy” and immediately feel one of two things:

      • Pressure
      • Or distance

It sounds big. It sounds like something reserved for later. It sounds like something you get around to once everything else is handled.

But here’s what’s real:

You are already building your legacy.

The only question is whether you’re doing it on purpose.

Legacy Is Not a Project; It’s a Pattern

Most people think legacy is something you create at the end of your life. It’s not. It’s something you reinforce every day.

Not through grand gestures… but through repeated patterns:

      • How you respond
      • How you treat people
      • What you prioritize
      • What you ignore

These patterns become your signature, and your signature becomes your legacy.

You Don’t Need to Change Everything

This is where people get tripped up.

They think:

“I need to reinvent myself.”
“I need to do something big.”
“I need to leave some kind of major mark.”

No. You don’t need to change your whole life. You just need to adjust what already exists, because legacy isn’t built by intensity… it’s built by consistency.

Five Simple Ways to Start Building Legacy Today

These aren’t dramatic. They’re not complicated. But they are powerful—because they’re repeatable.

    1. Become More Intentional in Small Interactions

Every conversation leaves something behind. Most people don’t get that.

Before you walk away from an interaction, ask yourself:

“What did I leave with this person?”

          • Encouragement?
          • Clarity?
          • Tension?
          • Nothing at all?

Legacy accumulates in moments like this.

    1. Say What You Meant to Say—Now

There are things people think… and never say.

          • Appreciation
          • Gratitude
          • Respect
          • Acknowledgment

They assume there will be time later. Sometimes there isn’t.

Say it now. Not dramatically. Just clearly.

    1. Reduce What Doesn’t Carry Forward

Not everything you do contributes to your legacy.

Some things:

          • Drain your energy
          • Scatter your attention
          • Lead nowhere

You don’t have to eliminate everything… but you can begin to notice:

“Does this carry forward… or does it end here?”

That awareness alone changes your behavior.

    1. Share What You’ve Learned

You don’t need a platform. You don’t need a following. You just need to be willing to pass something on.

          • A lesson
          • A realization
          • A better way of seeing something

You never know which one becomes the thing someone else carries for life.

    1. Align Your Daily Actions With What You Value

Most people say they value certain things… but their daily actions don’t reflect it. Legacy forms in that gap.

So instead of asking:

“What do I believe?”

Ask:

“What do my actions prove?”

That’s where alignment begins.

What This Looks Like Over Time

At first, these changes feel small. Almost insignificant. But over time… they compound.

And what begins as:

      • A few more intentional conversations
      • A little more presence
      • A few better decisions

Becomes:

      • A consistent way of being
      • A recognizable presence in people’s lives
      • A quiet but powerful influence

That’s how legacy forms. Not in bursts. But in patterns.

The Hidden Advantage

When you start living this way… something unexpected happens. You don’t just build a legacy for later. You improve your life now.

      • Relationships become more real
      • Conversations become more meaningful
      • Your time feels better spent

You stop waiting for life to matter… and start experiencing it as meaningful in real time.

Lend me your ear…

You don’t need more time. You don’t need more resources. You don’t need a different life.

You just need a slightly different level of awareness… applied consistently. Because legacy isn’t built in the future. It’s built in moments like this one.

And the more intentional you become… the more you realize:

You’ve been building it all along.

 

What Actually Becomes Your Legacy, (If It’s Not Your Stuff)?

After you come to terms with the idea that your belongings eventually become cash or trash, something deeper begins to surface. A more important question surfaces. If it’s not your stuff… then what actually remains? Because something does. It has to. Otherwise, what are we doing here?

Most people spend their lives building a collection. Fewer people spend their lives building a legacy. And at first, those two things can feel like the same thing. You work hard. You acquire things. You create a life that looks meaningful from the outside. But when you strip away the objects… when you remove the physical layer… you begin to see what was actually being built underneath it all. Or in some cases… what wasn’t.

Your legacy is not something that sits on a shelf. It doesn’t gather dust. It doesn’t need to be sorted, sold, or thrown away.

Your legacy lives in places that don’t require storage:

    • In the way someone hears your voice in their mind when making a hard decision
    • In the confidence you helped someone discover in themselves
    • In the moment someone chose differently because of something you once said
    • In the feeling people carry when they think of you

That’s where it lives. And unlike your stuff… it doesn’t depreciate.

If you look closely, you’ll start to recognize the real assets you’ve been building all along. Not the ones in your house… The ones in people.

Things like:

    1. Emotional Imprints

How did people feel around you?

        • Safe?
        • Judged?
        • Seen?
        • Dismissed?

Those impressions don’t get packed into boxes. They stay.

    1. Perspective Shifts

Did you help people see life differently?

Sometimes a single conversation becomes a turning point in someone’s life.

You may not even remember it. They will.

    1. Encouragement Given at the Right Time

Most people can point to one moment… When someone believed in them before they believed in themselves.

If you’ve ever been that person for someone else… that’s part of your legacy.

    1. Standards You Lived By

Not what you said. What you consistently demonstrated.

Integrity, kindness, discipline, presence…

People remember patterns more than moments.

    1. The Way You Handled Difficulty

Your response to challenge becomes a reference point for others. Whether you intended it or not.

Why Is It Time to Consider Your Legacy?

Because legacy is not something you leave behind. It’s something you are building… in real time. Every interaction. Every response. Every decision. You are either reinforcing something… or weakening it. And most people don’t realize this until much later, if ever.

Once you see this clearly, something begins to change. You don’t have to give up your stuff. You don’t have to become extreme or detached.

But you start to ask different questions:

    • “What will this moment mean later?”
    • “What am I leaving with this interaction?”
    • “Is this building something that continues… or something that ends with me?”

That shift alone begins to recalibrate everything.

What’s the Deal?

At the end of it all… People don’t gather to talk about what you owned.

They gather to talk about:

      • Who you were
      • How you showed up
      • What you stood for
      • What it felt like to be around you

That’s the conversation. That’s the continuation.

If your stuff doesn’t define your legacy… then your legacy becomes something far more powerful.

Something that

      • doesn’t rely on preservation.
      • doesn’t need protection.
      • can’t be taken, sold, or discarded.

It becomes…

the part of you that continues in others.

And the moment you recognize that… You stop trying to hold onto everything. And you start becoming someone worth remembering.

 

 

Your Acre of Diamonds and the Discipline to Recognize It

Most people know the story: a man hears about diamonds being found elsewhere. He sells his land, leaves his home, and spends his life searching. He never finds what he’s looking for. The land he abandoned? It turns out to be rich with diamonds. The story, often called Acres of Diamonds, has been told for over a century. It’s compelling. It’s memorable, and it carries a powerful message: What you’re looking for may already be closer than you think.

But let’s be honest and grown-up about this. That story is a parable, not verified history. Over the years, people tried to make it sound more “real” by adding locations, names, and details, but those additions don’t hold up to scrutiny, and that’s actually a good thing, because the real value of the story was never in whether it happened, the value was in what it was pointing to, and when we strip away the myth, something even more useful remains.

The Mature Version of the Lesson

The original story makes it sound like success is something you simply fail to notice, but real life doesn’t work that way. In real life, the truth looks more like this:

The opportunity is often already nearby, but it only becomes valuable when you stop abandoning it long enough to work it.

This is where coaching gets real.

Not motivational fluff.
Not magical thinking.
Not “manifest it and it appears.”

Just grounded, disciplined recognition.

What the Myth Gets Right—and What It Leaves Out

The myth gets this right:

    • People often underestimate what they already have
    • Familiar ground is easy to dismiss
    • We’re conditioned to believe the answer is “somewhere else”

What it leaves out:

    • Value usually requires development, not discovery
    • Staying is a skill
    • Mastery compounds quietly
    • Discernment matters more than excitement

When we look at verifiable real-life success, the pattern becomes unmistakable.

Real-Life “Acre of Diamonds” Stories (That Actually Happened)

    1. The Post-it Note (3M)

3M already had the adhesive, and they didn’t know what to do with it. For years, it was considered a failure. No new invention. No outside breakthrough. Just someone inside the organization who saw a different use for what was already there.

That became Post-it Notes; one of the most successful office products in history.

Revelational message:
You don’t always need a better tool. Sometimes you need a better application of the tool you already have.

    1. Warren Buffett’s Circle of Competence

Buffett didn’t chase exotic investments. He avoided industries he didn’t understand, even when they were trendy. He stayed inside his circle of competence, refining judgment over decades.

Others searched for diamonds elsewhere, while he worked the ground he already knew.

Revelational message:
Depth beats novelty. Staying inside what you truly understand is not limitation; it’s leverage.

    1. Toyota’s Rise Through Refinement

Toyota didn’t have the scale, money, or speed of American automakers, so they didn’t chase what they lacked.

They refined what they had:

        • Processes
        • Efficiency
        • Attention to waste

They turned constraint into advantage.

Revelational message:
What feels like a limitation may be the very thing forcing you into mastery.

    1. The Beatles Before Fame

Before the world knew them, The Beatles played thousands of hours in small, unglamorous clubs. They didn’t keep searching for a shortcut. They stayed long enough to become undeniable.

Revelational message:
Preparedness often looks boring while it’s happening.

The Real Lesson 

Whether you want to accept it, or not, the overarching revelation is:

Many people don’t fail because they chose the wrong ground.
They fail because they leave too early.

They:

    • Abandon skills before mastery
    • Pivot before traction
    • Dismiss experience because it feels “ordinary”
    • Look for permission instead of building authority

And then they wonder why nothing ever compounds.

So, let me ask you to…

Ask yourself—honestly:

    • What do people already ask me for help with?
    • What have I lived, learned, survived, or mastered that I downplay?
    • What am I tempted to abandon simply because it feels too familiar?
    • Where have I been standing long enough to leave, but not long enough to develop?

That may not be an acre of diamonds, but it may be the ground that becomes valuable once you commit to working it.

The Key Takeaway (No Romance, No Myth)

This isn’t a message about staying forever. Sometimes leaving is the right move, but leaving without first developing discernment, depth, and discipline is not courage; it’s avoidance dressed up as exploration.

The real work of purpose, mission, and success isn’t about finding the perfect place, it’s about learning how to recognize value where you already stand, and staying long enough to bring it to the surface.

That’s not a myth. That’s how real lives are built.

 

Your Mission Matters More Than Any One Person, Place, or Org

Too many people lose themselves in people, places, companies, organizations, and projects. They tether their sense of worth and identity to external forces, believing that attachment equals stability. But here’s the truth: attachment to anything outside yourself is the fastest way to give away your power, drain your energy, and sabotage your peace.

If you want to stay in your power, attach yourself to a mission, calling, or purpose—nothing else. This is how you ensure that no matter what happens, you keep moving forward.

The Trap of Attachment

When you attach yourself to a person, company, or organization, you invest emotional energy into something you cannot control.

    • A person can leave you, betray you, or change. If you have tied your self-worth to them, what happens to you?
    • A company can lay you off. If your identity is rooted in your job, what happens to you?
    • An organization can shift directions, disband, or lose integrity. If you’ve given everything to it, what happens to you?
    • A project can fail. If you’ve built your entire self around its success, what happens to you?

When the external factor crumbles, so does your sense of self. That’s why people who over-attach often feel lost, betrayed, or devastated when things don’t go as planned. They’ve placed their power outside of themselves.

Mission Over Everything

A mission, calling, or purpose is different. It is not dependent on anyone else. It does not require validation from a company or approval from a person. It is your internal compass, guiding you regardless of external circumstances.

    • If a person walks away, your mission remains.
    • If a job disappears, your calling does not.
    • If an organization dissolves, your purpose continues.

When you attach yourself to a mission rather than a person or institution, you become unshakable. You are no longer waiting for external approval. You are not dependent on circumstances lining up perfectly. You are committed to something bigger than any single event in your life.

The Power of Purpose

When you live with purpose:

    • You don’t cling to toxic relationships or jobs that drain you.
    • You navigate changes with grace because your core mission is untouched.
    • You make decisions from a place of clarity and confidence, not fear and attachment.

This is not about isolation or cold detachment from people and opportunities. It’s about standing firm in your own sovereignty. You can love people, enjoy work, and engage with communities, but you do so knowing that your purpose is the anchor—not them.

How to Shift from Attachment to Mission-Driven Living

    1. Identify Your Mission. What is the one thing that calls to you beyond all else? What is the impact you want to have on the world?
    2. Check Your Attachments. Where are you giving away your power? Who or what do you feel you “can’t live without” that isn’t aligned with your mission?
    3. Redirect Your Energy. Every day, make sure your actions and choices support your mission, not just temporary circumstances.
    4. Detach with Love. If you must step away from a person, job, or organization, do so with gratitude but without guilt. Keep your peace intact.
How to Find Your Life Purpose

You are not here to be a servant to unstable forces. You are here to fulfill your mission, express your calling, and walk in your purpose. Everything else—people, jobs, projects—are simply vehicles that come and go. Your mission is eternal.

Let go of attachment. Stay in your power. Keep your peace.

The world needs the fullest version of you, not a version clinging to something that was never meant to define you in the first place.

How to Find Your Life Purpose, Message, Passion, Mission: Strategic Alignment to Defeat Haters and Maximize Prosperity

Yes, the new book is out, and the new course is underway—and here’s your chance to be part of something extraordinary. If you’ve been searching for a course to help you uncover and embrace your purpose, but feel held back because your calling doesn’t fit the mold of mainstream acceptance, this is exactly what you’ve been waiting for.

There are countless books and courses on finding your purpose, but let’s be honest—most are designed for the masses. What if your purpose is different? What if it’s bold, controversial, and powerful enough to challenge the status quo?

This course isn’t for everyone—it’s for those who know their ideas are life-changing but fear the inevitable pushback. Whether it’s criticism, rejection, or resistance from unexpected sources, this program is designed to help you not just overcome it—but use it as fuel to succeed.

For 10 weeks, we’ll meet once a week to:

    • Uncover your unique purpose, message, passion, and power.
    • Learn how to handle and defeat the naysayers, even when they come from the places you least expect.
    • Build the confidence to dominate your sacred space, spread your message, and stay true to your calling.
    • Align your Quaternity of Purpose, along with the planets*, for maximum efficacy with nominal energy expended or effort.
    • Master the art of self-funding your purpose while creating a better life for yourself and the world around you.

This is your chance to not only discover your highest potential but to thrive in it—making a difference and a living at the same time.

Be part of the beta group for the course’s initial roll-out. Contact me today to secure your spot on the special invitation list. Spaces are limited, and I want to make sure the right people—like you—are in the room.

Are you ready to step into your purpose and claim your power? Let’s do this together. Reach out now, and let’s get started.

The book for the DIY-ers:

How to Find Your Life Purpose
How to Find Your Life Purpose

Discover your ultimate life purpose and unleash your potential with How to Find Your Life Purpose, Message, Passion, and Mission: Strategic Alignment to Defeat Haters and Maximize Prosperity by David M Masters. This transformative guide dives deep into aligning your heart, mind, and soul to unlock the life you were destined to live.

Unlike other purpose-related books, David M Masters doesn’t just stop at helping you identify your passion and mission—he prepares you for the inevitable challenges and opposition you’ll face along the way. With wisdom drawn from decades of experience as a transformational leader and coach, Masters reveals how opposition—whether from external critics or internal doubts—is not a sign of failure but proof you’re on the right path.

You’ll learn:

    • How to uncover your unique life purpose and craft a powerful message that resonates with others.
    • Strategies to align your talents, passions, and mission into a harmonious, prosperous life.
    • Why opposition arises when you’re stepping into your greatness—and how to turn it into an advantage.
    • Practical tools to silence the haters, overcome self-doubt, and stay focused on your path.
    • The secrets to maximizing prosperity in all areas of life, including financial, relational, and spiritual abundance.

This book is not just about discovering your purpose—it’s a step-by-step guide to living it boldly, no matter the obstacles. Packed with actionable advice, real-life examples, and grounded spiritual insights, How to Find Your Life Purpose, Message, Passion, and Mission equips you with the clarity, courage, and confidence to rise above the noise and create a life of impact and fulfillment.

If you’re ready to stop drifting and start living with purpose, this book will be your ultimate guide. Defeat the doubters, embrace your calling, and step into a life of unstoppable prosperity today!

* = On January 25, 2025, the cosmos will present a spectacular event known as a planetary alignment, where all major planets in our solar system will line up in a harmonious formation.

Sharing Your Light with the World & Some Selling is Required

Selling is more than a business transaction; it’s a spiritual act—a sacred exchange of energy that allows you to share your gifts, create impact, and connect deeply with others. When you stop fearing the act of selling, you unlock opportunities for abundance, growth, and purposeful living. The fear of judgment or rejection often holds people back, but overcoming that fear is the key to stepping into your power and fulfilling your purpose.

Let’s take a look at the spiritual essence of selling, practical strategies to master the art of selling, and tips to dissolve fear, build confidence, and align your sales approach with your greater purpose.

Why Selling Is a Spiritual Practice

Selling is not about manipulation or coercion; it’s about service and connection. When approached with integrity and love, selling becomes a way to:

    • Share Your Gifts: Your unique skills and talents are valuable. Selling allows you to share them with the world.
    • Serve Others: Your product or service fulfills a need or solves a problem for someone.
    • Create Impact: Every sale can spark transformation, whether for an individual, a family, or a community.
    • Embrace Abundance: Selling enables you to generate financial resources, which can be reinvested into creating even greater impact.

When you shift your mindset to view selling as an act of service and generosity, it transforms from something fearful into something deeply fulfilling.

Is the Fear of Selling Holding You Back?

Many people fear selling because they associate it with judgment, rejection, or being perceived as “pushy.” This fear often stems from:

    • Worrying About Others’ Opinions: Fear of judgment can stop you from showing up authentically.
    • Fear of Failure: The possibility of hearing “no” can feel overwhelming.
    • Self-Doubt: Questioning the value of what you offer can make you hesitant to promote yourself.

These fears create a barrier between you and the opportunities that selling can bring. The good news? You can dissolve these fears and replace them with confidence and purpose.

7 Keys to Selling for Masters

    1. Understand Your Value
      Recognize the unique value your product or service provides. When you believe in what you’re offering, your confidence will shine through, making others more likely to trust and invest in you.
    2. Shift Your Mindset
      Instead of seeing selling as “taking,” view it as “giving.” You’re offering something that can improve someone’s life—whether it’s a product, service, or idea.
    3. Listen First, Then Speak
      Great selling starts with listening. Understand your customer’s needs, desires, and pain points before presenting your solution. Empathy builds trust and rapport.
    4. Practice Authenticity
      Be honest, transparent, and authentic in your interactions. People can sense sincerity and are more likely to connect with someone genuine.
    5. Learn the Skill of Selling
      Selling is not an innate talent; it’s a skill you can learn and refine. Invest in training, read books, and practice consistently to develop your ability.
    6. Focus on Relationships, Not Transactions
      Long-term success in selling comes from building relationships. Prioritize trust, loyalty, and service over short-term sales goals.
    7. Embrace Rejection
      Rejection is part of the process. Each “no” brings you closer to a “yes.” Use rejection as an opportunity to learn and grow.

Tips to Dissolve Fear and Build Confidence

    • Identify the Root of Your Fear
      Journal or meditate to uncover why selling makes you anxious. Is it fear of rejection? Fear of judgment? Understanding the root will help you address it.
    • Reframe Rejection
      Remember that a “no” is not personal. It often means the timing isn’t right or the person isn’t your ideal client.
    • Affirm Your Worth
      Use affirmations like, “My service is valuable, and there are people who need what I offer.” Repeat them daily to build confidence.
    • Visualize Success
      Imagine yourself selling confidently, making meaningful connections, and hearing positive feedback. Visualization trains your brain to expect success.
How to Find Your Life Purpose
How to Find Your Life Purpose

Aligning Selling with Your Purpose

Selling becomes effortless when it aligns with your values and purpose. To ensure your sales approach feels authentic:

    1. Clarify Your Mission
      What drives you? What impact do you want to create? Knowing your “why” gives you the motivation to overcome fear.
    2. Serve Your Ideal Audience
      Focus on connecting with people who truly need and resonate with what you offer. These are your ideal clients, and serving them will feel natural and fulfilling.
    3. Infuse Your Passion
      Let your enthusiasm and passion for your work shine. People are naturally drawn to those who believe deeply in what they do.
    4. Give Without Expectation
      Share free value—whether it’s advice, resources, or encouragement. This builds trust and positions you as someone who genuinely cares.

The Power of Selling with Light

When you approach selling as a spiritual exchange, you open doors to abundance, connection, and fulfillment. Your service is valuable, and the world needs what you have to offer. Every sale is an opportunity to share your light, help others, and grow into the person you’re meant to be.

Mindful Selling:

    • You are not just selling a product or service—you’re creating impact.
    • Your energy, confidence, and authenticity are your greatest tools.
    • Facing your fears and stepping into your purpose will bring rewards far greater than financial gain.

It’s time to show up, share your gifts, and thrive. Selling is spiritual—embrace it, and watch your life transform.

The Power of Unconditional Love & Connection to Your Purpose

To love unconditionally is to transcend the boundaries of ego, fear, and expectation. It is a profound act of surrender, releasing the need for control, validation, or reciprocity. Unconditional love is not transactional; it does not keep score or demand returns. Instead, it is the purest expression of compassion, seeing beyond flaws and recognizing the divine spark inherent in every being. It is a sacred acknowledgment that each soul is on a unique and divine journey, perfectly designed with both strengths and imperfections.

Embracing the Imperfect Divine

Unconditional love does not demand perfection because it understands that imperfections are part of the divine tapestry. Life’s challenges, wounds, and flaws are not obstacles to love—they are invitations to expand it. To love unconditionally is to honor the entirety of existence, not just its polished facets. It is a love that whispers, “You are enough, just as you are.”

This perspective transforms relationships and interactions, allowing us to see others—and ourselves—with eyes of compassion. The divine design of imperfection teaches us patience, humility, and grace, fostering a love that holds space for healing and growth.

The Transformative Power of Choosing Love

Every choice we make is an opportunity to align with either fear or love. Fear constricts, isolates, and perpetuates cycles of pain. Love, however, liberates, connects, and creates. Choosing love is a revolutionary act. It has the power to shift timelines, heal deep wounds, and open the door to miracles.

When you lead with love, you become a beacon of light in a world often shadowed by fear. Your energy ripples outward, touching lives in ways you may never see but are undeniably profound. Love dissolves barriers, awakens truth, and elevates the consciousness of both the giver and the receiver. It is the ultimate force of creation, the bridge between what is seen and unseen, tangible and intangible.

Elevating Collective Consciousness

Unconditional love is not just a personal journey—it is a planetary mission. When you choose love, you contribute to the collective vibration of the planet. Every act of love, no matter how small, adds to the reservoir of healing and transformation.

Imagine a world where more people chose love over fear, compassion over judgment, and connection over division. The energy of love is contagious; it inspires others to step into their own heart-centered power. It reminds us that we are all interconnected, bound by the universal thread of love.

The Journey Begins Within

True unconditional love starts with yourself. You cannot pour from an empty cup; therefore, self-love is not selfish but essential. To love yourself unconditionally means to offer yourself the same grace, patience, and kindness you wish to extend to others.

This begins with acknowledging your own imperfections without judgment, seeing them as sacred components of your journey. When you love yourself deeply, you cultivate a reservoir of love that naturally overflows into your relationships, your community, and the world.

How to Find Your Life Purpose
How to Find Your Life Purpose

Let Love Lead

As you navigate your day, let love guide your thoughts, words, and actions. When faced with challenges, pause and ask yourself: “What would love do?” This simple question can transform conflicts into opportunities for connection, misunderstandings into moments of clarity, and pain into pathways of healing.

Love is not just an emotion; it is a choice and a practice. It is the answer to every question and the solution to every challenge. By choosing love, you align with the highest version of yourself and fulfill your divine purpose.

A Call to Be Love

You are here to be a vessel of love. In every breath, every thought, and every choice, you have the power to return to love. This is your ultimate purpose. When love becomes your guiding principle, you witness the unfolding of a reality far more beautiful and harmonious than you ever imagined.

Unconditional love is not a destination but a way of being. It is the greatest gift you can give to yourself and the world. As you walk this path, remember: the more you give love, the more you embody it, and the more you inspire others to do the same.

Let love lead your life, and watch as it transforms not only your world but the entire collective. This is your power. This is your purpose. This is the essence of unconditional love.

Why Life Doesn’t Make Sense

You’ve been living your life, doing the best you can with what you’ve, yet you still wonder why life doesn’t make sense.

That’s because you’re not looking at the whole picture. When you look at your life from the perspective of your “self” through your eyes, based solely on your life experience within the confines of the life that has been set out for you by your family, beliefs, society, and the world as we know it, it is nearly impossible to make any sense of it all. unconceivable

That is unless you resign yourself to being just a cog in the wheel, a part of the machine that only needs to operate at a bare minimum to contribute to the greater whole for the benefit of someone else, and that is all.

You are defined as the “you” that was born into a particular family, in a body with its limitations which you know all too well, the situations, circumstances, and experiences which you’ve endured up ‘til now, all representing the result of you as expressed in your flesh, and that is all.

If you think there’s something just not right about all of this, you’re right.

You do not have enough information, from this perspective, to truly understand who you really are, so how can you make sense of any of this?

Embedded in your DNA are the keys to unlocking your higher self and your purpose.

You are right to wonder if there is something more because there is so much more for this life to offer you.

Clues can be found among your natural talents, passions, and gifts. These are indelible markings that long to express themselves but may be muted by the constraints of this life.

As your conscious mind ponders why life doesn’t make sense, the higher part of you is calling you forth to release that sacred and divine part of you, fully engaged with your purpose, message, passion, and mission. Yes, you came to this planet with a destiny, and it yearns to be expressed.

From the perspective of your higher self, all the challenges and struggles of this life take on new meaning. All this was perfect in every way. Nothing bad or wrong; all is divinely set forth to equip you for your emerging self perfectly.

Now, you are beginning to realize that there is a purpose for your being. You are here to heal others or the world by connecting in a way that only someone who has lived the life you have lived can.

You have developed a distinct message to convey to others in the world through a voice and method of delivery that are uniquely yours.
Or, you have come to be an active part of the evolution of the human race. Your active role is crucial in bringing humanity to its tipping point of enlightenment, marking the next evolutionary leap forward for our world.

Seek to align yourself with everything that you are. Make the adjustments in your life to do the things you love, connect to your unlimited powerhouse of unconditional love that resides within you for yourself, others, and the world at large, and all these things will be added unto you.

You can become all you could be and so much more.

You have an exciting journey just ahead.

Coming Out of the Darkness

You’re a good person. The world needs you. These days? You’re nowhere to be found. You’ve suffered incredible pain, sorrow, and sometimes it feels like you just can’t go on another day. Yet, you know it is time for your coming out of the darkness.

Life and love are laying in wait, buried deep inside you, waiting for the moment you set them free. You, your special gifts, abilities, passionate voice, and unencumbered love are waiting to be let loose. The day has come, and you know it to be true.

No one would blame you for pulling back, withdrawing from the flow, or taking a sabbatical, all necessary for you to heal and recalibrate after all you’ve been through but the time has come for you to reclaim your birthright and reemerge better than you were before, with more love, life, and vitality.

You have survived the most horribly ostentatious challenges. You have survived. And the world needs you now more than ever.

The time has come for you to live a better life, your best life, and make the world a better place.

If you’re having trouble remembering what really living was all about, find an enthusiastic, vibrant and exciting child to play with. Remember what life was all about. These little people aren’t restrained by all the trappings of life and see everything as amazing and fun. Playing with a child will help to awaken the child in you who is waiting to come out and play.

Reach out. Make friends. Let your light shine and help to improve the lives around. Start small, be there for one person, then another, and another. Build your organic network one person at a time. It’s okay to be cautious but be fearless and lead with love.

Start giving. Find opportunities to volunteer helping others and enjoy the benefits of performing random acts of kindness. Your giving doesn’t have to be huge, it can be infinitesimally small, starting a chain reaction which changes the world for good.

Look for and find reasons to celebrate the good things in life, even if seemingly insignificant. The time has come for you to celebrate good times. Come on. Invite your inner child to come out and party with you.

You’ve learned powerful lessons from your past and this education came at great emotional expense but now is the time to look for the good, happiness and joy which is all around waiting to reveal all the good things in life to you.

Everything has led to this moment and you are ready.

It’s time to put yourself out there. The new and improved you, ready to believe and achieve your highest and best.

Get a grip on your Purpose, Message, Passion, and Mission (PMPM) and prepare to start singing your song proud and out loud.

A whole new world of possibilities is waiting for you.

I am here for you, the whole world is here for you, all the angels and energy in the universe is on your side.

Now is the time to celebrate your coming out of the darkness and into the light, emerging in love and light.

You got this… Now, more than ever.

Will You Do It?

You have a dream. You can do it. Will you do it? That’s the question.

Occasionally, someone crosses my path and I am empathetically drawn to him or her. I can see his or her potential and I sometimes get lost in the fullness of the vision. On rare occasions, I reach out and invite this person to join me in the performance of my mission because I can see the synergistic relationship between our combined missions. Sometimes I jump the gun.

My vision of his or her potential is so clear, that I overlook the current status he or she is in along his or her life’s journey. If he or she is not ready, willing, or able to fully embrace their individual purpose, message, passion, and mission yet, then I am doing him or her an injustice my presuming they he or she is fully engaged or capable participating in this time in space.

Everyone is on their own path, doing the best they can with what they have, and there is no reason to engage when the timing is not right for you. Only you can know when you are in the right place at the right time to fully embrace your higher calling, and only then, will you know the answer to, “will you do it?”

Will you do it?

Sometimes it’s when you’ve had it up to here (as Popeye the Sailor might say, “That’s all I can stands and I can’t stands no more!”), other times you might have been just waiting for the appropriate bandwidth in life to have the time and space to dedicate to living your own life to your highest and best potential.

There are others who have a pretty good idea what their life’s purpose is (may even know precisely what their divine assignment is) and have decided never to engage in it fully.

I owe a huge debt of gratitude to Mark Victor Hansen who taught me to work with people and clients in lockstep fashion. Previous to Mark’s coaching, I could get so excited about someone else’s possibilities that I’d sacrifice everything on his or her behalf, only to find out later, that he or she had no intention of following through on fulfilling his or her life’s purpose.

Until Mark’s diagnosis, I would passionately overextend myself, even put myself in harm’s way, allow myself to be drained by emotional vampires, exploited by sociopaths or psychopaths who would seek to exploit my naivety and enthusiasm.

These days, my ministry is far more streamlined, I have staff and friends looking out for me and I am more cautious and disciplined. I realize now, that I cannot want something for you more than you want for yourself.

I will fully support you and walk with your hand-in-hand step-by-step toward you accomplishing your goals, realizing your dreams, achieving your highest and best, living your best life, and making the world a better place, but I will not do it for you.

I show you how, and help you do anything you want, but you must be motivated, willing and capable of doing the work necessary to bring your vision to fruition.

If you think you’re ready to go forward with all you’ve got, then I’m ready to go with you. You could do this on your own, no doubt about it, but together we could rock this thing.

Call me.