The Dark Side of Using Muscle Testing for Human Lie Detector

Muscle testing, also known as applied kinesiology, is a fascinating and, in many ways, revolutionary tool. Originally developed as a technique for assessing physical health, it has grown into a broader practice where people use it to determine truth or deception in various aspects of life. However, while muscle testing offers unique insights, it also reveals an unsettling reality about human interactions. When misused or over-relied upon, it can lead to disappointment, disillusionment, and even a deep sense of isolation.

Understanding Muscle Testing as a Lie Detector

Muscle testing works on the principle that the body responds differently to truth and falsehood, often tightening or loosening slightly depending on the integrity of the statement or subject in question. When properly applied, it can help determine whether a given piece of information resonates as “true” or “false” to the body’s inner wisdom. With minimal training and a focus on self-clearing for accuracy, anyone can learn to use muscle testing as a tool to reveal hidden aspects of their lives, particularly to discern truth from deception.

At first, the allure of muscle testing lies in its power to offer clarity. For many, the initial experience is thrilling and almost addictive. Television ads, news reports, political claims, and even close relationships can be put to the test. Each session feels like peeling back a layer of social veneer to reveal what’s really underneath.

The Disillusionment: Realizing the Scope of Deception

For those who begin using muscle testing as a universal lie detector, there often comes a sobering moment of revelation. After repeated testing, many discover a substantial amount of deception surrounds them. In my experience, I found that a staggering 96% of those tested proved to be deceptive to varying degrees after extensively muscle-testing people around me.

Even among the 4% who were honest, I found that honesty didn’t always equate to kindness or sensitivity. Of those who were truthful, 75% were blunt or even rude, and only a small fraction were gentle in their honesty. This experience can be disheartening, as it sheds light on the difficulty of finding authentic, compassionate communication.

I also noted a curious trend among the deceptive individuals: many were truthful only about 10% of the time. The rest of their statements were tinged with various forms of misrepresentation. This discovery leads to an inevitable question: If so many people around me are lying, what’s the point of testing?

Coping with the Dark Side of Truth

The process of uncovering widespread deception can be deeply unsettling, leaving some feeling detached and disillusioned. The initial thrill of knowing “the truth” can soon transform into a sense of betrayal. Realizing that even loved ones, mentors, or respected figures might be embellishing, withholding, or outright lying can be jarring. It’s a process that can feel lonely as if you are seeing behind a curtain that others are unaware of or don’t wish to acknowledge.

As I discovered, coming to terms with this reality often requires adopting a new perspective: respecting others’ rights to their version of truth—even if it includes deception. After all, in the United States, freedom of speech protects even the right to lie, to embellish, and to portray a version of reality that may be far from objective truth.

A Balanced Approach to Muscle Testing

After moving through the phases of excitement and disillusionment, many find a balanced way to use muscle testing in their lives. It’s common to become more selective about when and how to use it, focusing on practical applications rather than analyzing the statements of others. For instance, some may use it to test the efficacy or suitability of foods, supplements, or other health-related products rather than assessing people’s honesty.

This moderated approach allows the practitioner to respect others’ boundaries and refrain from wielding muscle testing as a judgmental tool. It becomes a method of self-care rather than a source of mistrust or alienation.

Embracing the Gray Areas of Truth

Ultimately, muscle testing as a lie detector highlights a profound truth about human interaction: honesty is complex, and people are complicated. Not everyone intentionally deceives, and many communicate in ways that, while not strictly true, may reflect their fears, hopes, or misunderstandings. Accepting these shades of gray can bring a sense of peace and acceptance to those who have ventured deeply into the practice.

Knowing how to access the truth at such an intimate level can be powerful, but it also carries a responsibility. It’s easy to get caught up in testing every statement, every relationship, and every interaction, only to find that perfect honesty is rare. Recognizing the right to privacy, subjectivity, and even embellishment allows the practitioner to navigate the world with compassion, reserving muscle testing for matters of personal significance rather than as a lens of judgment.

Muscle testing can provide valuable insights, but using it with tolerance, respect, balance, and an open heart is essential. Truth is a continuum, and while muscle testing may reveal facts, it cannot capture the complex layers of human expression, belief, and intent. By integrating this awareness, the practitioner can find a renewed sense of connection to themselves and others, understanding that truth exists in many forms—and each has its own place in the intricate matrix of life.

 

Please Lie to Me

Lies. We hear them all day long, every day of our lives and they make us feel good.

Even if the lies are horrific tales, they make us feel better about ourselves… because, after all, it could be worse. We could have been the unfortunate subjects of the tragic lie.

Our parents lie to us about Santa, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy. Disney – the hallmark of all fanciful lies – spins a yarn so incredible, we can help but believe any web they weave, and the liest don’t stop there… We’re just getting started.

Go to school, read a book, watch the news, do a Google search. We’re surrounded by so many lies you couldn’t possibly discern what is truth, even if it was staring you in the face.

Are we all living one big lie?

Ever look in the mirror and ask yourself, “Who is that?” or “Who am I?” and not have any clue as to what the real answer to questions, like that, might be?

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But when you tell me good things about myself – even if they’re not true – doesn’t it make me feel better? And the bigger and more fantastic the lie is about me, the far better it feels. In fact, many of the happiest moments of my life were when I was surrounded and bathed in the most dishonest lies ever told.

Tell me lies: It makes me feel fabulous!

Let’s face it, being lied to makes you happy too.

Why am I happy when I am lied to? Because it feels so good to believe that the best things in life are not only possible, but it makes you feel like you are one of the lucky ones. So lucky, it’s as if you’ve just plucked the winning lottery ticket out of thin air. How much better does it get?

When people lie to me, it makes me happy. Tell me that I am amazing, that I look like a million dollars, that I am handsome or pretty, talented, unique, funny and/or brilliant and I will love it!

Please lie to me, it makes me happy. Don’t we all want a little bit of happiness? Sure, it may not last forever (or very long, for that matter) but in that moment we feel like we’re on top of the world.

Want to make me incredibly blissful? It’s easy; just tell me, “I will do anything to make you happy.” Aargh! You got me! Bull’s-eye! Right to the heart! I am yours!

Lie to me. Tell me that you love me, and make me the happiest person on this planet.

Please lie to me.
When you lie to me it makes me feel like I can do anything.
Please lie to me.
I will believe we can live in a world where we are free.
Please lie to me.
I will believe in true love between two for eternity.
Please lie to me.
I will believe we have a divine destiny.
Please lie to me.
So I can be happy.
Please lie to me.

Be a good liar

This doesn’t mean that you should be massively deceitful, though a high skill level in lying can be hugely effective if wielded masterfully.

What it means is

If you are going to lie, please do so with the best of intentions.

Narcissistic lies are simply destructive. While they may accomplish the desired results in the interim, the long lasting effects can be negative and can lead to the inability to ever be trusted by others.

On the other hand, if you have to lie – at the very least – make sure to make someone happy. There is a better chance of having a more meaningful social impact by telling what are commonly referred to as “white lies,” without malice of intent.

Take a moment to think, before answering,

How does my butt look in these jeans?