seeking love | David M Masters

They say, “seek and you will find,” and when you’re looking for love and finding something, you may be surprised to discover what you’re finding is the opposite of what you’re looking for. They say, “opposites attract,” but this is ridiculous. Stop looking for love in the wrong places and get the love you desire by not looking for love but being the love you long for. What’s the difference between love and attraction? Instead of wondering, “Where can I find love,” you can attract your soulmate, that special person who is uniquely matched to you, by changing your love vibration to match that which you seek.

You’re out there looking for love. You want it. You want someone you can give your love to who will have some capacity to give love back to you. You kind’a know what love looks like it looks like… Hey, it looks like that. Humma humma ding ding, baby, you got everything. Oh, wait… It looks like that! Now, that’s what I’m talking about. Ah-oo-oo-ga! Vroom, vroom. Now, my motor’s runnin’! Oh, what’s this?

You want someone to love. You want someone to love you, and “You might as well face it, you’re addicted to love.” You know, you’ve got all this crazy chemistry firing off in your head and your body, and when you’re “in love,” you’re higher than a kite! Let’s face it you’re stoned out of your mind, and you’re not thinking right.

And the drugs you’re on, while they are completely natural, are more powerful and addictive than meth. I can’t understand why they don’t have a pill to turn off the natural production of this destructive drug cocktail. Oh, wait; they do.

Yes, this is a serious mental health issue. Some people, maybe you, are suffering from it, and there are prescriptions that turn off the raging love machine. But don’t do that. I mean, we can give you a pill to save your life, no problem. Or you can try to kick the love demon on your own.

To do that, it might help if you knew what you were dealing with.

Let’s take a look at what’s happening with you and your love life.

Are you stuck in a destructive love pattern that as you looking for love in all the wrong places? They say opposites attract but this is ridiculous!

In the short time, we have together today, I want to give you some tools that will help you to get your head screwed on tight, which might be able to help change the destructive pattern you’ve gotten yourself into.

1. LOVE AND FORGIVE YOURSELF

2. BE WILLING TO CHANGE

3. MAKE A LIST OF WHAT YOU WANT

4. BE THE LIST

5. STOP DOING WHAT DOESN’T WORK

6. BE WHERE YOUR TRUE LOVE IS

7. RELAX AND LET IT BE

The 7 Steps to Attract Your Soulmate

Do you want love? You got love.

All the love you could ever want is lying dormant deep inside of you. Let’s introduce you to your love. Imagine there is a little four-year-old child living inside you. This child is very loving, caring and is very sensitive.

You are responsible for this child’s wellbeing. What kinds of things might you tell this child to assure him or her that you will do everything you can to keep him or her safe? How would you make sure that the child was cared for? How would you make the child feel respected, self-confident, happy, and loved?

Are there things you could do to make the child feel at risk? Could you do or say something to the child to make him or her feel fearful, neglected, uncared for, unloved, or maybe even wish he or she had never been born?

While this might seem like a silly exercise, there is a little one who lives inside you who wants to talk to you. Your inner child is that little, neglected version of you, who is afraid, tucked away deep in the shadows in you, hiding from you and doesn’t want to burden you. Until now, you have neglected this little child who is hidden between you and your heart.

Isn’t it time you met your inner child?

As you get to know this child better, loving, caring, and making him or her feel safe, secure, and enthusiastic about wanting to come out and play with you, the more love you will have for yourself and others.

If you continue to neglect this child, the love you have for yourself and others will wither away. Left alone, your inner child might find ways to interrupt normal life by pitching a fit or throwing a full-on tantrum.

Loving yourself, filling your heart full of love, is the only way to have love to share with others. You can go through the motions in an effort to express love to others, but to share authentic love energy with another being, you must first possess the love energy to give or exchange it. To love without the energy is just being nice, and there’s nothing wrong with that, if that’s all you can do.

That child within you is longing to be loved, and your act of loving that precious little child builds love’s energy inside of you. The more you love your inner child and yourself, the more love you have to share with others.

True love starts with you. You must honor and cherish yourself before attempting to love someone else, or expecting to receive love from someone else.

If you have no love inside, and someone else’s love makes you feel good, that good feeling that you feel will fade away. It is unsustainable if your heart is not overflowing with love. This is how you can become a love addict. Constantly seeking love from outside yourself, because your heart is empty inside.

The exchange of energetic love is the only way to experience true love, where the love inside of you overflows to the others, your love is reflected from them back to you, and it’s so much better if they are also overflowing their love energy to you, and it is reflecting back to them. This is the amazing, authentic love which is awakening in mankind at this very moment.

You have and are all that you need for true love. You are complete and whole in yourself. You don’t need to find someone to complete you or be your other half. You are not broken or incomplete without anyone else.

If your heart is full of love, you never have to seek love outside yourself, though the spice of life can be found in the reflection of love’s overflowing and intermingling with another.

Love is not about struggle, strain, or about manipulation or gain. You don’t have to work so hard to get the love, attention, or security you seek. When love is abundant, there is no need to covet, conquer, bargain, or control. Love is sacred, fearless, only trusts, protects, honors, is hopeful, and is safe.

Love seeks its own level. Love goes where it overflows.

True love is likened to the love between a loving mother and her perfect newborn baby. There is no jealousy, contractual agreement, trading this for that, no guarantees or expectations. Only pure, fully open, overflowing love as they gaze into each other’s eyes.

Are you ready for better, more authentic love?